As a couple this has its risks. But being VERY honest as to why you both want to do it. Having a very open dialog too. IF you are having marriage issues this is not going to solve them. Sex is meant to be exciting, fun, naughty, pleasure for both, for all. Enjoy!
How long did you resist interracial?
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dinadima
Male
at first I saw a big black dick in porn..he was part of a white girl..he was such a big wow))) it was so cool I could not resist and began to masturbate))...I've been thinking about it almost all the time..and a month later he met a black guy)
It is different for everyone. But the fact you are here means it is important to you. Just be honest with each other and dive in. You will love it.
hoping my wife might do the same thing if she would try it once
Angelyn
Female
As a mixed product myself I was never brought up to consider interracial to be wrong or taboo. But neither did I fantasize about black men at all when young.
I have no sense of white guilt either. All that reparations nonsense I see it as politicized garbage.
My desire for interracial actually grew because of my environment. There are not many black men in academia, so it is easy to fantasize about them as the Macho Other whom you don't see that much in real life. Plus I have very light skin, so the contrast is enormous.
Real life black men in academia aren't better than other men. Not only that, I dislike most of the black guys in the social sciences and liberal arts. Too much of that modern extreme left wing nonsense. Some of these guys have built entire careers on being professionally offended and finding racism under every leaf, tree and blade of grass. Black guys in the hard sciences are a lot less ridiculous.
I have no sense of white guilt either. All that reparations nonsense I see it as politicized garbage.
My desire for interracial actually grew because of my environment. There are not many black men in academia, so it is easy to fantasize about them as the Macho Other whom you don't see that much in real life. Plus I have very light skin, so the contrast is enormous.
Real life black men in academia aren't better than other men. Not only that, I dislike most of the black guys in the social sciences and liberal arts. Too much of that modern extreme left wing nonsense. Some of these guys have built entire careers on being professionally offended and finding racism under every leaf, tree and blade of grass. Black guys in the hard sciences are a lot less ridiculous.
I resisted for about a year after I realised that, black men we're a bit more hung. I thought growing up 6 inches was big because the "average" was only 5. Till I learned that averages don't really work that way 
. After being denied by two friends I had crushed on in my H.S. and first year of college, who those two had previously dated black men, I moved onto my current and very loving gf, still in denial that my size was more than enough. She would tell me that it was for the first year, then after many nights of orgasmless sex for her, she started to want me to go down on her more instead. She had always proclaimed that she was more of an "inside" girl instead of an outside girl. 3 years into it, our relationship switches rolls, she becomes more dominant, I become more submissive (I always have been, I kept crossdressing from her for 2 years) as it switched we introduced more.toys, I noticed she had many orgasms/multiple orgasms with bigger toys. In my submissive mind, this led to feelings of inadaquacy that led me to watch more "big cock" porn, which led me and her as well to see the repeated postings of black cock videos.
I ceased resisting about 2 years ago, when watching interracial porn with her in bed, watching a big black cock fuck a chubby girl about her size and soft curvy prettiness. My fingers rubbing her pussy I noticed she was wetter than I had ever seen her. I looked at her and asked if that's really what she wanted, and she smilled sheepishly and nodded yes.
That basically solidifed the idea that black cock were better for both my gf and myself. I have since started shaving and working out less on my upper body and more on my rump to become more on the feminine side, to potentially ease into cuckolding.
. After being denied by two friends I had crushed on in my H.S. and first year of college, who those two had previously dated black men, I moved onto my current and very loving gf, still in denial that my size was more than enough. She would tell me that it was for the first year, then after many nights of orgasmless sex for her, she started to want me to go down on her more instead. She had always proclaimed that she was more of an "inside" girl instead of an outside girl. 3 years into it, our relationship switches rolls, she becomes more dominant, I become more submissive (I always have been, I kept crossdressing from her for 2 years) as it switched we introduced more.toys, I noticed she had many orgasms/multiple orgasms with bigger toys. In my submissive mind, this led to feelings of inadaquacy that led me to watch more "big cock" porn, which led me and her as well to see the repeated postings of black cock videos. I ceased resisting about 2 years ago, when watching interracial porn with her in bed, watching a big black cock fuck a chubby girl about her size and soft curvy prettiness. My fingers rubbing her pussy I noticed she was wetter than I had ever seen her. I looked at her and asked if that's really what she wanted, and she smilled sheepishly and nodded yes.
That basically solidifed the idea that black cock were better for both my gf and myself. I have since started shaving and working out less on my upper body and more on my rump to become more on the feminine side, to potentially ease into cuckolding.
Honestly there is no way of knowing how either of you will handle it until it happens. All the cliches are true...he has to love you completely and want you to experience a higher sexual pleasure than he can provide, you have to let him know he is the best white lover you’ve ever had and the only white man in the world you would have sex with. Then you have to have a few drinks, not too many tho, and take the plunge. Talk about it a lot and in tireless detail after. Make sense?
same here
To be honest, I resisted for about six months. My first 'encounter' was while on vacation in the Bahamas. I found myself in denial for the time after that, not willing to upset my husband or cause harm in our marriage. One day, we sat down and really discussed the encounter in the Bahamas, what I felt, what he felt, and what, if anything we should do in the future.
My husband tentatively suggested we could look around, together, on adult web sites. If someone interested me, then we could pursue it. If not, no harm, no foul. It took us a while but I found a guy that was mutually acceptable to the both of us. We chatted via e-mail then via phone before agreeing to meet in person, purely a social event, no play.
We hit it off immediately! Not just me and him, but my husband liked him as well. A week after that initial meeting, he had me and that's what made me admit to myself that this had become a part of our lives.
So, to answer your question again, it took me six months to accept what I really wanted as part of my sexual life
My husband tentatively suggested we could look around, together, on adult web sites. If someone interested me, then we could pursue it. If not, no harm, no foul. It took us a while but I found a guy that was mutually acceptable to the both of us. We chatted via e-mail then via phone before agreeing to meet in person, purely a social event, no play.
We hit it off immediately! Not just me and him, but my husband liked him as well. A week after that initial meeting, he had me and that's what made me admit to myself that this had become a part of our lives.
So, to answer your question again, it took me six months to accept what I really wanted as part of my sexual life
As long as bbc gets more pussy time than hubby
As soon as she mentioned her desire to try a BBC GB, I made it happen. Took a month to set it up, and she was a bit nervous--we walked into a hotel suite in which 12 naked BBC men, complete strangers, had a naked woman on a bed and were fucking her tag-team (4 at a time)..we sat on a sofa (the deal was 'we were there to watch') for about 20 minutes watching, when one man walked up to my wife (with his erection in her face), took her by the hands to stand her up, then slid her dress over her head (she never wears panties, and I made her leave the bra off to better show her 38I tits). He led her to the bed, pushed her gently down beside the other woman, and put his face between her legs--as another cock was rubbed against her mouth until she opened it, and a cock was placed in each of her hands. 20 minutes from demurely dressed to four strangers making her service their cocks. Then the guys switched and a cock was shoved into her pussy--which was dripping wet--until she orgasmed (about 60 seconds). After 10 minutes and her dozen orgasms, he took a rest and another cock entered my wife's pussy--by then she was sucking eagerly on whatever cock was rubbed against her face and reaching out to rub the cocks waiting their turn on either side of her.
The other woman retired to a second bedroom with a couple of guys, and the evening continued for a couple of hours (with phone calls being made to get fresh 'talent' to show up as she drained each cock on her tits, in her pussy, down her throat.
The other woman retired to a second bedroom with a couple of guys, and the evening continued for a couple of hours (with phone calls being made to get fresh 'talent' to show up as she drained each cock on her tits, in her pussy, down her throat.
She is the perfect wife. The more bbc a wife takes the better
trustnoone
Male
Lucky cuck husband...or smart rather.
Pity you wasted time but, good decision in the end.
BruceJenner76
Male
Same thing here, hated the idea. Always tried to deny or make excuses. So much, I reluctantly started calling myself a cuck. Took getting cheated on the second time with different GF's to make me start to think, maybe I need to accept. I am still reluctant, but hoping next relationship, I can be "broken" in sort of a way. I think this will actually help me get over inferiority complex.
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