How do you bring it up to wife?

show her this

I don't think any of this is necessarily "easy." If a couple do watch porn together, and turning the woman on to the notion of interracial sex is the agenda, the "Blacked" stuff might be nice; for sure it is wonderful eye candy, but I find it can be over-glossy, over-acted and pretty contrived. It often feels air-brushed, unreal in its scenarios, and even while it displays mutual pleasure in a great way, in some other ways it's just so produced, slick and formulaic, ultimately generic and unrealistic.........just like most mainstream porn.

Anal is intense, incredibly intimate, and if a woman loves it the way my wife does, she'll surely understand some of what that woman is feeling. I'm not certain how big that fellow is (10+"? and plenty thick); I’m just shy of 5 inches and narrow and it’s undeniably impressive -- a little humbling too, though no less a turn-on for it -- to see the effect he's having on her while still holding 4-5 inches in reserve. And to then see it register on her lovely face in that way when he begins to feed her a bit more! Damn!!! I think I probably need to show this one to my wife....lol. Well, we've all got to dream!

It might take some looking but amateur stuff, so long as it's long on female pleasure, really might be better if you harbor hotwife or cuckold or swinging aspirations, as I do. Real amateur action emphasizes an essential truth, the one thing that you'd probably wish to be conveyed above all others; that perfectly normal, real couples can be motivated to try such things. It's something they can do together. It's not going to be something that everyone likes but clearly there are couples who find something in it that works for them, that they both really enjoy.
 
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Just have a sane conversation with her and tell her how you feel but words do not mean as much as behavior so you will need to make her feel secure and safe and take it slow
 
I want my wife to try black. I know she probably would try it just don't know what the best approach is to asking this..
Honey, I think it would be hot to see you with a hung black guy. Say it while you're fucking her. If she doesn't like it later. Tell her you said it to turn her on. If she came right after you said it, do it again.
 
I am in a similar situation. My gf had heaps of men before me but when I asked her about threesome she straightway said No. So I will be taking help from a BBC who lives near by who will befriend her and then take it slowly forward from there on.
 
It depends on what she is comfortable with now. Is she into swinging already? Then all you have to do is go to a swinging party with a black guy and half the battle is won. If she is not into swinging, is she into watching porn with you. Swinger and interracial porn are great ice breakers. The "screw my wife" series is awesome.

However you go, there are hurdles that you have to overcome.

1) Girls have been programed to hide/stiffle their sexuality. All women initially resist the idea of any extramarital sex because she thinks she has to in order to be "proper".
2) When the husband suggests swinging the first thing the girl thinks is "he just wants to fuck other chicks". She has to know that you just as, if not more interested in her being satisfied too.
3) A good way to break the ice is post-fucking pillow talk. She is satisfied, she knows you love her, and she won't be as intimidated by certain questions. Good ones to ask include:
"If you could have sex with any celebrity, no consequences, who would it be? (Later, ask about people you know, or people she or you work with)"
"Did you have sex with anyone before we met? Who with? What was it like for you?"
"Who was the biggest guy you were with? What was it like?

If you are generally curious, and even aroused by her answers, she will become more comfortable talking to you about it. If you have jealousy pangs when she starts talking about fucking your best friend, or her ex boyfriend who was so much bigger than you, then you need to back off. Not for her sake, for yours.

Once she gets into a story about a time she was really satisfied by another man, then reply "That's kinda hot". She'll ask you to tell her who you would like to fuck. Reply "I don't know, I think you are so sexy, I love being with you so much, you are so erotic when we make love, It would be incredible to be able to watch you have sex, not participate, just watch." You are not telling her you want her to fuck your friend, or even a black guy. You are not saying that you want to watch her get fucked, you are saying nothing more than you would like to be able to experience sex with her from a different perspective.

Regardless, you don't come off as a sick perv, and she starts thinking about the idea of her fucking another guy.

Another thing. If she ever gets hit on by anyone. Get interested. Ask her what she thought, how she felt. What she thought of the guy. Make sure she knows that you are not and would not be upset by her having thoughts about another guy. Tell her that you love her and trust her implicitly. Tell her that you are not threatened at all by her being attracted to another guy. If she responds positively, then move in and start to seduce her. If you can fuck her right then, then during sex, bring up the other guy. Ask her if she wants to be fucked by him. If you have played the situation right, and if she is turned on, she will say yes. Afterwards, don't say anything about it, and don't bring it up for a while. Let the idea stew and grow.
Wow this is the best advice I've seen on this site
 
If your woman isn't into porn (many aren't), you can always go to erotic literature with cuckold themes. This works very wel for the introvert, reserved, guilty about what they really want types.
 
******* helps, so does porn, a lifelike dildo did wonders for me, I watched her, and our rule was no touching while she rode it. She really got off on that. I finally dropped the bomb, and she agreed.
 
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I want my wife to try black. I know she probably would try it just don't know what the best approach is to asking this..
You know your wife well so you should know better what might work.. For some women direct question is good approach as they don't like to beat around the bush however it can damage your relationship. Best way is understand her interest before asking such a tricky question.. Say.. Something like... I am not sure why there's so much about white woman choosing BBC as their bull.. If she is interested she will chat on the topic.. If she is upset you can give decent closure saying.. Each to their own... Who are we to judge them... May be it works for them.. This way you can safely retract without facing awkward situation between you and her..
 
I was just lucky that my wife had experience with BBC in the military and after watching an interracial porn movie with a huge black cock in it she told me that she would love to fuck another black man. I went to a website for hookups and started asking the men she approved of to service her. I had already caught her sucking off a black co-worker and I was never so turned on in my life. Then she had me ask other black co-workers to please fuck my wife!
 
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