Im a whiteguy who wants a white woman who will date me but mess with black men on the side. I would love to her the stories or even watch once in awhile. The problem is finding a girl who is into this. Doesnt seem like many are. So my question is how did you get into the swinger or cuck lifestyle? Who brought up the idea? If it was you were you nervous about your partners reaction? Also was it something you have always wanted to try out? How long did you wait until you brought up the idea to your other half?