How did you get your wife into BBC?

AnnieS said:
He didnt- I got myself into it. You dont make a spouse do anything. They either are recpetive or they are not.
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Did he willingly accept the lifestyle? If he didn't would you continue without his consent? Did Hubby just accept having you sometime is better than not having you at all?
 
Joetana712 said:
Did he willingly accept the lifestyle? If he didn't would you continue without his consent? Did Hubby just accept having you sometime is better than not having you at all?
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He was receptive and we make decisions as partners. When he is not receptive then I’m done. Simple as that. We have a very fulfilling relationship, this is dessert on a great meal. Where you go wrong is assuming he’s out of the loop. He has me all of the time- this is some of time. If it wasn’t working then we find a new way. My relationship is first, this is not my priority. My husband is.
 
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hello everybody! I met BBC, interracial, cuckold when here a few years ago I joined a sex site! I became curious and very addicted to BBC and interracial to the point where I started convincing my wife to get fucked by BBC! 2 years I spent convincing my wife! After these 2 years, which was now January 2023, my wife started saying yes to BBC! So my boss told me to go work at a construction site an hour from my house! There I met a very fun, friendly black guy who I really liked! the trust between the two of us was established and we started talking a little about everything and sex came to the fore! So I made him understand that I love interracial and BBC, black guys who fuck white wives! he's the same! Then one day he invited me and my wife to an Afro-Tropical night at a disco! I spoke to my wife and we agreed to go that night! So it was that night that my wife was fucked for the first time by BBC! Even today he fucks her either at our house or at his house! His last surprise, he started talking to us that he wants to bring his black friends to fuck my wife together!
 
Debman said:
Wife into BBC? Quite by accident and the journey was long. But success prevailed.
My wife and I were invited over for a "get-to-know-your neighbor" event. Our hosts were swingers as we found out later. There were maybe 75 people invited. Downstairs, there was a big screen TV showing interracial clips. To be polite, my wife and I sat there and watched with amazement as some very skilled black men made white wives moan and grown intensely. I know my wife was a little embarassed as we spoke about it afterwards.

My wife came from a very conservative, religious family. The family always behaved and seen as "prim and proper". Overcoming the cultural norms was difficult. My wife believed in the vows she took when we married.

However, many times during love-making, I recall, my wife expressing the fact that "if ******* were legal she could make a living at it". I did not say anything for a long-time but figured that maybe I could suggest that she she could use more frequent sex than I could offer. She never openly complained to me about our love-making sessions.

I began to drop subtle hints during our conversations about what we saw in those interracial clips (years before) and having sex with a very endowed black man. I developed a questionaire and asked that she complete it as would I. The remarks and answers that I got were revealing. For example, my wife said that she had been and was curious about men of color. What was she curious about? Men's appendages? their strength? there macho? their endurance?

My wife responded very candidly and suggested that she was and is curious about the phrase "Once you go black, you will never go back". She had fantasied, on occasion, about being in the presence of a black adonis. A man who was large statured, confident, not arrogant, decisive, and had an attitude (what I would describe as black dick energy). She agreed that the attributes she described would be alluring. She also added that the man could not be too much younger than her and certainly know the way around a woman's body.

However, she also told me that she would never consider it because it was "not the way she was raised". She is from Connecticut, middle-class neighborhood, Italian-catholic.
I continued to suggest we go to a club, go downtown to a bar where black men might frequent. She would not do it.

After about a year and one-half, we were vacationing in San Diego and there was a pool party. There were a fair number of mixed couples outside enjoying the water and the weather. I think that when my wife saw some of these black men in their swimsuits, she may have recalled those interracial clips we witnessed two years prior.

In any event, almost as if a switch turned on, my wife started casually asking me more and more about what I had in mind about bringing a lover into our life. I assured her that my idea was not to open our marriage, but was interested in her taking on a lover. I stressed that a black lover would be best.

I also shared with her that I considered what we did in bed to be love-making. What she might do outside our marriage to be engaging in recreational sex...no *******, no bills, just pure pleasure from a man who she might never have made his acquaintance.

I came up with a plan to create a post on a dating site and she surprisingly agreed to go along with it. We also set up rules by which this plan might work. My wife would always have the final say as to whether she was interested or not. I indicated that I would chapprone for as long as she wanted me to be in her presence.

From our posting, we received about thirty responses. Most of the responses were not what either of us were interested in. There were three men that we decided to ask to meet. Out of those three we started seeing one. He was in management with one of the delivery services and had a very flexible schedule. He had played college football. He had his own place and was single. He was even tempered and respectful. He also knew exactly how to treat my wife..not to slow and not too fast. After a number of miscues, my wife did get over her nervousness and trepidation and became very submissive in this man's presence. Behind closed doors my wife was no longer the shy, demur, white republican, soccer mom everyone thought she was. For the first time that I recall, I did not recognize the actions of my wife. How lucky I was to watch my wife become a slut to her lover's demands. My wife quite literally gave her lover anything he asked for. He gladly took it. His name was Chad; I playfully called him "the Beast". Chad had a way about him that made my wife his property while she was in his bed.
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Wow, damn this was hot to read!!
 
Years before I got married, had a very brief couple of dates with a black co-worker. Then after we were married for a few years, we first were invited to a lifestyle home party and we started to play a little. At a wedding a couple of years later, the opportunity came up, and the husband was ok with it. Has been part of our lifestyle routine since then (I think they are calling it ethical non-monogamy now lol)
 
beenblackened said:
I did it not my husband. It was a co-worker who kept hitting on me till I finally gave in. I was a changed woman after that and could stop fucking BBC's. Best decision of my life. Still strong at it 25yrs later :sex::love:
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Good luck and keep it up, you guys are doing good! My wife is also ready for a long year with a BBC, because now she just wants a BBC, she can't do without a BBC
 
We were watching swinging porn and started talking about it, we were going to meet a couple but the guy backed out but the wife was game she was bi and played behinds his back, after many 3 somes with her she wanted a guy so I found one he happened to be black, he in time brought over several friends both men and women some black some white that was the start of our swinging lifestyle. We’ve done many combinations but today her preference is black men.
 
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