Sorry, had completely forgotten all about this discussion.
Have a look here:
https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/question-for-white-cuckolds.85672/
That woman also lives in NY, was also open about the financial aspect of the arrangement (although it appears that she does reasonably well on her own) and she included thorough details about what she wanted. She also was willing to offer *something* in return. Hasn't visited here in over a month. Probably couldn't find somebody to fit the description?
It doesn't look like you've been a member here for very long, although you may have lurked. Here's what you're going to find. The "cucks" come in these varieties, some of which you'll probably already have known:
1.) husband/bf got the wife/gf to give it try...so, obviously, the woman was attracted to the guy at least initially and in many cases the relationships remain strong
2.) the fantasy/fetish with the forum being supplemental to viewing porn. Most of those characters get carried away when posting here, and probably haven't experienced this offline or even would, given the opportunity.
3.) outright fakes, post just to stir the pot or some other reason to try and cure boredom...so, quite a few of these might also fall into category #2, as well.
4.) the curious single guy, who wants to try but needs a willing partner.
Taking all of those things into consideration, if you're serious about finding somebody like that, you also have to be realistic. Yeah, this would be the right place to try and locate such a person but do the numbers support it, even in NY?
You do sound quite interesting, and if you'd like to chat, we could have a good conversation.