How chastity can really help

Sophia here.

Yes i found this experience to be true to my own although we didnt start with chastity. But once you get them in there things change fast lol. Chastity did Not appeal at first because im not a dominant woman. But after we tried it. I realised you dont need to be. You are defacto.
 
So, me and my boyfriend have been active on this site for a couple of months and we've been having a lot of fun with this lifestyle.

About a month ago my boyfriend asked if I wanted to try and put him in chastity. I was kind of hesitant because we're not much into this humiliating thing, and I kind of felt that it would be like I was bossing him around too much. But we thought it was worth trying.

Now he has been in chastity for a month. We wanted to really give this a shot so we didn't want to do it for just one day or two and then give up. I have let him out a few times, but we haven't had sex. He wants to do this so I'm certainly not forsing him in any way.

After this month, I can only say WOW... We wanted to dig deeper into this lifestyle and this has helped us so much. My boyfriend is now more focused on my satisfaction and helping me to hook up with black guys. And he likes it.

And for me, this has really sparked something inside me. Now that we have decided to keep my boyfriend in chastity for a while, my focus too, has changed. Instead of just letting the steam off with my boyfriend, like I usually do, I now have to meet my bull, or hook up with some other guy. It has made me much more horny and active in this lifestyle. Now I see my regular bull at least twice a week, and I have been more eager to try and meet other guys.

The sex is amazing, and neither me nor my boyfriend misses having casual sex with each other. We are not going to stop having sex completely, because we love having sex in a more emotional way, but perhaps we will do it less often, at least for a while.

My boyfriend fantasizes about me going "black only", but I'm not sure about that. :qos:. I love him and I think I would miss the more tender sex that I only enjoy with him.

Anyway, just wanted to say this, because it's been such a great experience! :):)

That‘s really hot - would love my gf to do this to me!
 
Well there are times that the movement of the cage can cause him to orgasm especially if he hasn't had a ruined one for a long time. So today I have ordered a new cage for him. Quite a bit smaller to restrict even more his ability to get hard and orgasm. That arrives tomorrow, he doesn't know yet. I am cruel yes, but he wanted this and he loves it.
J
Xoxoxo

"he doesn't know yet" - It's the little thoughtful things you do that make you special in his eyes.

"I am cruel yes" - Beautifully cruel, Jamie. Every cell of my weak white body aches for a dominant woman like you.

"he wanted this" - He wished hard, the universe answered, a BBC loving slut angel was sent to make his dreams manifest.

"he loves it" - He has found is heaven. Who wouldn't.
 
Well there are times that the movement of the cage can cause him to orgasm especially if he hasn't had a ruined one for a long time. So today I have ordered a new cage for him. Quite a bit smaller to restrict even more his ability to get hard and orgasm. That arrives tomorrow, he doesn't know yet. I am cruel yes, but he wanted this and he loves it.
J
Xoxoxo

How did date night go Jamie ? Did he struggle & did you you have fun ?
 
So, me and my boyfriend have been active on this site for a couple of months and we've been having a lot of fun with this lifestyle.

About a month ago my boyfriend asked if I wanted to try and put him in chastity. I was kind of hesitant because we're not much into this humiliating thing, and I kind of felt that it would be like I was bossing him around too much. But we thought it was worth trying.

Now he has been in chastity for a month. We wanted to really give this a shot so we didn't want to do it for just one day or two and then give up. I have let him out a few times, but we haven't had sex. He wants to do this so I'm certainly not forsing him in any way.

After this month, I can only say WOW... We wanted to dig deeper into this lifestyle and this has helped us so much. My boyfriend is now more focused on my satisfaction and helping me to hook up with black guys. And he likes it.

And for me, this has really sparked something inside me. Now that we have decided to keep my boyfriend in chastity for a while, my focus too, has changed. Instead of just letting the steam off with my boyfriend, like I usually do, I now have to meet my bull, or hook up with some other guy. It has made me much more horny and active in this lifestyle. Now I see my regular bull at least twice a week, and I have been more eager to try and meet other guys.

The sex is amazing, and neither me nor my boyfriend misses having casual sex with each other. We are not going to stop having sex completely, because we love having sex in a more emotional way, but perhaps we will do it less often, at least for a while.

My boyfriend fantasizes about me going "black only", but I'm not sure about that. :qos:. I love him and I think I would miss the more tender sex that I only enjoy with him.

Anyway, just wanted to say this, because it's been such a great experience! :):)
 
My Dilemma,My wife loves her Bull and accepts me as a cuck to them both but does not embrace my Submissive side,Her Bull will gladly put me in my place and would love to chain me to the bedroom door so I would be helpless as I watch them and would probably love to see my wife torment me while I was blindfolded with nipple ******* and whatever else he came up with ,but not sure she is ready. I have a solution.My lovely Red Headed very sexy wife just found out she descends from French Royalty.I will suggest on her Bulls next visit that she lets me serve dinner and pour the wine and any other service a Jack of Spades would do. I will say to her that for tonight you are free from your traditional life ,you are a single woman and the Queen of spades and your Bull is the King and for tonight I will be your servant Jack. .I will tell her role play would be fun and she could see me as Jack and not her husband, and If I am not a good servant then send me to the dungeon where I could be chained to the wall.If she gets into this Role Play then I am sure her Bull will take over and make sure I am subserviant to him my King and to my Queen.
 
Well there are times that the movement of the cage can cause him to orgasm especially if he hasn't had a ruined one for a long time. So today I have ordered a new cage for him. Quite a bit smaller to restrict even more his ability to get hard and orgasm. That arrives tomorrow, he doesn't know yet. I am cruel yes, but he wanted this and he loves it.
J
Xoxoxo
God you are so great. You make him smaller and smaller and that is the right way !!! You are the best hotwife ever
 
God you are so great. You make him smaller and smaller and that is the right way !!! You are the best hotwife ever
My wifes Bull told me my wife should cage my cock and if she considers it I hope she does not get one too small. Being caged is OK but I want my dick to be able to squirt when I watch her Bull take her or have me clean them up after he is done.
 
Well there are times that the movement of the cage can cause him to orgasm especially if he hasn't had a ruined one for a long time. So today I have ordered a new cage for him. Quite a bit smaller to restrict even more his ability to get hard and orgasm. That arrives tomorrow, he doesn't know yet. I am cruel yes, but he wanted this and he loves it.
J
Xoxoxo
You aren't hanging around, what did you order and does he have a PA to keep it secure?
 
Thank you! I was going to give him a treat on valentines day, a real orgasm, unlocked so he could jerk off. But he has been so horny and whiney this weekend that I've decided an orgasm is inappropriate. He will get one at some point, but not sure if it shod be a month, 2 months, 3 months? Maybe 6 months is the best option. Suggestions?
J
Xoxoxo
Is this cage even smaller then last one ?
 
Thank you! I was going to give him a treat on valentines day, a real orgasm, unlocked so he could jerk off. But he has been so horny and whiney this weekend that I've decided an orgasm is inappropriate. He will get one at some point, but not sure if it shod be a month, 2 months, 3 months? Maybe 6 months is the best option. Suggestions?
J
Xoxoxo
Dealer's choice, always. Firm and quick to get it over with, or long, slow, relentless edging, working it up to the edge and back again, over and over, building up to that volcanic eruption...or not...maybe... Who knows? Mistress Jamie does! Whatever the time frame, there should be a lot of teasing in the lead up to it, getting those expectations high, that ******* flow knocking, saliva filling the mouth like a Pavlovian dog at dinner bell time. The 'hand that rocks the cradle' sets the time, the motion, the rhythm, the release. Cuck is only a passive player, waiting patiently, achingly for Mistress to deliver him heaven. Her in charge, I love that.
 
Well there are times that the movement of the cage can cause him to orgasm especially if he hasn't had a ruined one for a long time. So today I have ordered a new cage for him. Quite a bit smaller to restrict even more his ability to get hard and orgasm. That arrives tomorrow, he doesn't know yet. I am cruel yes, but he wanted this and he loves it.
J
Xoxoxo
Oh does his cage fit into the cock extension ? I didn't realize it if it does. Wow that would make your hot ass bouncing up and down on his fake cock even harder to take ! No wonder he was moaning !
 
Exactly true. He is allowed to smack my ass on occasion, I like that he can feel how wet I pussy gets and I like him to be able to smell my body when he fucks me. I give him all the physicality of sex but without him being able to actually fuck me with his dick. So he feels me bouncing, he feels my soft skin and my bodies warmth. He gets to smell my pussy which reminds him exactly what sex used to be like for him. So yes, he moans because he used to love fucking me. But it's actually approaching 3 years since he last fucked me. That's not going to change, he thought I was kidding when I told him I wanted our agreement to become permanent. Its funny, just after he finished fucking me with his bigger cock, he told me that he has actually forgotten what it's feels like to have sex. He can't recall what pussy feels like on his dick. It's such a turn on for us both knowing he will never have sex again. It's simple, little dicks need to be locked up. Anything smaller than 6 inches, lock it away and go shopping for a big dicked bull.
J
Xoxoxoxo
"It's simple, little dicks need to be locked up", yes, yes, yes! This woman blows my mind. Micheal (like a lot of whiteboi cucks) is experiencing JOMO - the Joy of Missing Out (the opposite of FOMO, Fear of Missing Out).
 
Yup. It's about 1.5 inches shorter. This is the 3rd or 4th cage I've had to order since we entered the lifestyle. It just keeps getting smaller and smaller.
J
Xoxoxoxo

The incredible shrinking man, just the size of a thimble...
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Her in charge, him in the palm of Her hands...what can he give her?
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How about the gift of a large black nail?

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