Couldn't have said this better myself. Chastity is mandatory for us. It changes his behaviour. He has literally no access to his penis so is he resigned to a sexual non-starter. I literally encourage him to stop thinking of his penis as a sexual organ and the cage represents how i view his dick. He doesn't need a sexual organ because there is no sex. He won't have sex with me again because I have men that are sexually far beyond what he was even on his best day which is why I am black only now. I have the best and kinkiest sex ever and I have it when I need it. Like tonight.I found chastity essential. I am black-only and my cuck accepts he will never fuck me again because, well, frankly I have no use for his worthless slimy little white slug when I could be enjoying all the superior black cock I want.
It all started with chastity though. It helped guide us both into the mindset that we are no longer sexual equals... that I have sexual freedom and he does not. In our situation, it was absolutely essential.
J
Xoxo