How can I convince my wife to try a real bbc?

Darkrider1414

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My wife and I role play with bbc dildos and even went as far as having a conversation with a black bull to fuck my wife I thought it was a done deal then out of the blue she change her mind and said she was not comfortable doing that to me. I explained that I’m ok with it but she insisted that it’s a disrespect to me.
Not sure how to convince her that I’m more than ok with it
any advice?
 
Darkrider1414 said:
My wife and I role play with bbc dildos and even went as far as having a conversation with a black bull to fuck my wife I thought it was a done deal then out of the blue she change her mind and said she was not comfortable doing that to me. I explained that I’m ok with it but she insisted that it’s a disrespect to me.
Not sure how to convince her that I’m more than ok with it
any advice?
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Is she hot??
 
It has to be something that she is completely comfortable doing. I'm guessing that she only said yes because that's what you wanted to hear. But advice would be to drop the subject entirely. If she comes around she'll let you know. In the meantime, be happy watching IR porn on your phone. Don't try to convince her. The more you continue to bring the subject up, the more you will push her away. There are gudies on the website, but all that is Bullshit!!! If she wants to try some strange Dick she will. Hopefully you'll get to watch. Or she will do it without your knowledge. Right now she says no. Leave it at that. There is no brainwashing technique to get your girl to fuck someone else. IT'S HER CHOICE
 
Darkrider1414 said:
My wife and I role play with bbc dildos and even went as far as having a conversation with a black bull to fuck my wife I thought it was a done deal then out of the blue she change her mind and said she was not comfortable doing that to me. I explained that I’m ok with it but she insisted that it’s a disrespect to me.
Not sure how to convince her that I’m more than ok with it
any advice?
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I would love my wife to experience a BBC, it has always been a fantasy of ours. However, it is her decision, so I will have to keep hoping, but also be prepared for it to stay a fantasy. You may be in the same boat as me. Hope it works out for you both.
 
Darkrider1414 said:
My wife and I role play with bbc dildos and even went as far as having a conversation with a black bull to fuck my wife I thought it was a done deal then out of the blue she change her mind and said she was not comfortable doing that to me. I explained that I’m ok with it but she insisted that it’s a disrespect to me.
Not sure how to convince her that I’m more than ok with it
any advice?
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You do not have to convince her! She already said yes, so she knows that she wants it. Only thing she is unsure of is that you want it enough. Hint: She didn`d say: "Honey, I'm not that kind of woman. I am a boring frigid monogamous hoe like all the other hoes in the neighborhood." No. She said: "I am not comfortable doing that to you." And: "It would be a disrespect to you." - That`s nothing else than her asking you for assurance!

And what did you answer? "No problem. I'm okay with it." You`re OKAY?? WTH? No! You are not "okay". You f*cking want it to happen. Is it a disrespect to you? - "My beloved wife, it is NOT disrespectful toward me. It would be a disrespect if you would deny me, your husband, fulfillment of my greatest sexual desire: To see you get satisfaction from a well-built Black man like you deserve." period
 
My wife's secret fetish is to go jazz concerts outside at the riverfront. And flirt with all the black band members. I know what she doing an sit back and watch all those guys checking her out. She always wet n horny when we get home. Just suggestions
 
Update:
I have not pressed her in regard to a BBC for a while. She ask me last night if I had gone cold on the idea. I have told her that I will support her whatever she decides, but am defo not cold on her chasing her dream.
 
Westie said:
Update:
I have not pressed her in regard to a BBC for a while. She ask me last night if I had gone cold on the idea. I have told her that I will support her whatever she decides, but am defo not cold on her chasing her dream.
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If she was really against the idea she wouldn't have mentioned it out of the blue like that.
I think she really does want it, but won't ever be comfortable pulling the trigger itself. its like a lot of subs that won't ever ask to be spanked.

Take her to the right environment and she will happily submit and enjoy it.
 
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