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Train my wife

Train my wife

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Been playing here and there with my wife and a large black dildo ( 8" i am only 5.5") last 2 months or so to get her open to the idea of spreading for black cock. Last night she asked if she could pleasure herself with it in the bed without me, as I had worked late the last few eves. and was tired laying on the sofa, this was a first since we have the black dildo, as I was shocked and very turned on knowing she prefered the black dildo and being alone with it in our bed to get off, to really add to it I noticed she put on a pair of thigh high stockings just to wear with her black dildo, which she only wears when we are sexual, as she left them on the dresser by mistake.

Please, I need help in what if anything I should do or say next to encourage her further, she is pretty shy and vanilla, doesnt have a real interest in porno, .. Please help..
 
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Train my wife said:
Been playing here and there with my wife and a large black dildo ( 8" i am only 5.5") last 2 months or so to get her open to the idea of spreading for black cock. Last night she asked if she could pleasure herself with it in the bed without me, as I had worked late the last few eves. and was tired laying on the sofa, this was a first since we have the black dildo, as I was shocked and very turned on knowing she prefered the black dildo and being alone with it in our bed to get off, to really add to it I noticed she put on a pair of thigh high stockings just to wear with her black dildo, which she only wears when we are sexual, as she left them on the dresser by mistake.

Please, I need help in what if anything I should do or say next to encourage her further, she is pretty shy and vanilla, doesnt have an real interest in porno, .. Please help..
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I would ask the obvious question but at a moment when you're heavy into it and she's riding her black dildo!
"Honey, have you ever thought about what a real live big black cock would feel like?", or any version of that, ie.,
"Would you like to try a real black cock sometime?"
"Would you like this to be the real thing right now?"
"Think you could handle a real live big black cock just like this one?"
 
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If she is vanilla one step at a time.
Tell her how hot you thought it was that she chose to use the black toy.
Ask her to do something naughty like put on the stockings, that might get a confession.
Ask her to do something naughty for you next time and take a pic of herself with th black cock.
Tell her how hot it was that she was playing with another cock apart from yours..
 
realcucklife said:
If she is vanilla one step at a time.
Tell her how hot you thought it was that she chose to use the black toy.
Ask her to do something naughty like put on the stockings, that might get a confession.
Ask her to do something naughty for you next time and take a pic of herself with th black cock.
Tell her how hot it was that she was playing with another cock apart from yours..
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@Train my wife - go with these suggestions from @realcucklife - its always better to go in an in-direct way rather than direct until your wife reveals more of her thoughts. Its about unleashing her subconscious and repressed thoughts. If you go in too direct she will withdraw, if you go in-direct and round about she will remain engaged and playful. Its the Art of war, retreat when they attack, attack when they retreat - cat and mouse, cat and a ball of yarn play. Push and pull until they bring out the nails and pounce, hang on to the ball and won't let go (keeps bringing up about BBC) then you got em.

You got to get her to start looking at more images of soft-porn black men and white women whether through TV, internet or what have you. Not the hard-core stuff as that just might push her away and make her retreat. Right now sounds like she is just enjoying the orgasms from the bigger cock-size dildo and the color of it doesn't matter at the moment. You need to feed her mind in visualizing, experiencing feelings, and dreams of the Big-cock associated with a Black stud fucking and pleasing her.
 
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realcucklife said:
If she is vanilla one step at a time.
Tell her how hot you thought it was that she chose to use the black toy.
Ask her to do something naughty like put on the stockings, that might get a confession.
Ask her to do something naughty for you next time and take a pic of herself with th black cock.
Tell her how hot it was that she was playing with another cock apart from yours..
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Really like those small suggestions.. Thanks
 
bigblackbull76 said:
@Train my wife - go with these suggestions from @realcucklife - its always better to go in an in-direct way rather than direct until your wife reveals more of her thoughts. Its about unleashing her subconscious and repressed thoughts. If you go in too direct she will withdraw, if you go in-direct and round about she will remain engaged and playful. Its the Art of war, retreat when they attack, attack when they retreat - cat and mouse, cat and a ball of yarn play. Push and pull until they bring out the nails and pounce then you got em.
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Yes, Thank you so much for thoughts on his suggestions and adding yours, I really think its just like you said I need to be in direct to ease her thoughts. Great advise..Thank you Big Black
 
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Train my wife said:
Been playing here and there with my wife and a large black dildo ( 8" i am only 5.5") last 2 months or so to get her open to the idea of spreading for black cock. Last night she asked if she could pleasure herself with it in the bed without me, as I had worked late the last few eves. and was tired laying on the sofa, this was a first since we have the black dildo, as I was shocked and very turned on knowing she prefered the black dildo and being alone with it in our bed to get off, to really add to it I noticed she put on a pair of thigh high stockings just to wear with her black dildo, which she only wears when we are sexual, as she left them on the dresser by mistake.

Please, I need help in what if anything I should do or say next to encourage her further, she is pretty shy and vanilla, doesnt have a real interest in porno, .. Please help..
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* read bigblackbull76's guide in this forum
* women are inherently submissive; a dominant position where you are alpha and assertive, telling her what you want to make her do for your pleasure may be a better way
* women are more kinky, sexual, deviant, horny than most men know because they are conditioned to be "good" girls... but thats fixable once they feel SAFE, trusted, loved, supported, accepted, and their wild sexual desires and experiences are embraced by their man not feared (like most men do - most white men are terrified by a thought of their sweet little girl stretched out and satisfied on a BBC)

* get her a Hitachi

* get her dancing and drinking and hit on by black men

* TAKE CHARGE, don't be afraid, don't beg - tell her you want her to entertain you, take away her guilt and responsibility, make her buy into your desires and add details she likes...
 
get her to use a dildo on you, once she fucks your ass she will see you as submissive and willing to do what she wants. For a woman to openly cuck a man she has to be secure or not give a damn. Once she sees you as her property she will use you as she wants even if you do not like it. Getting fucked by her will change how you feel as well.
 
tomtomjim said:
get her to use a dildo on you, once she fucks your ass she will see you as submissive and willing to do what she wants. For a woman to openly cuck a man she has to be secure or not give a damn. Once she sees you as her property she will use you as she wants even if you do not like it. Getting fucked by her will change how you feel as well.
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interesting thought, but I am straight
 
letting her fuck your ass has nothing to do with your sexuality and once you become a cuck you give yourself to a woman to control. If you really want her to fuck other men just let her do you and it will happen
 
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