Hoping she is ready to take the next step..

[tomtomjim]

Interesting thoughts, admire your view

is that her picture if so she is hot, i have had experience and also talked with many others about this. Why do you want to be a cuck and would it be okay if other people knew

 

[Train my wife]

is that her picture if so she is hot, i have had experience and also talked with many others about this. Why do you want to be a cuck and would it be okay if other people knew

Yes thats her in the picture, others knowing?

 

[tomtomjim]

Yes thats her in the picture, others knowing?

when she fucks other men there is a good chance other people will know or she may tell her friends

 

[Train my wife]

It would be very embarrassing to myself as her husband, but would go with the flow and support her wishes

 

[bc93941]

You may want to suck the dildo in front of her. That will certainly send her a message.

 

[Train my wife]

You may want to suck the dildo in front of her. That will certainly send her a message.

It would for sure, but i am straight

 

[jane mintu]

@Train my wife - go with these suggestions from @realcucklife - its always better to go in an in-direct way rather than direct until your wife reveals more of her thoughts. Its about unleashing her subconscious and repressed thoughts. If you go in too direct she will withdraw, if you go in-direct and round about she will remain engaged and playful. Its the Art of war, retreat when they attack, attack when they retreat - cat and mouse, cat and a ball of yarn play. Push and pull until they bring out the nails and pounce, hang on to the ball and won't let go (keeps bringing up about BBC) then you got em.

You got to get her to start looking at more images of soft-porn black men and white women whether through TV, internet or what have you. Not the hard-core stuff as that just might push her away and make her retreat. Right now sounds like she is just enjoying the orgasms from the bigger cock-size dildo and the color of it doesn't matter at the moment. You need to feed her mind in visualizing, experiencing feelings, and dreams of the Big-cock associated with a Black stud fucking and pleasing her.

Wow!

 

[tomtomjim]

talk about fucking other men not just black men, onc she starts she will try different flavors

 

[cuckold7]

I like the fact that she has no idea that you want to watch her have sex with a well endowed black man. She has no idea what's really going on in your mind. For a white guy to tell his white wife that he wants to watch her have sex with a black guy can be very difficult.

I like that you told her they made a mistake with the dildo. I think you should ask her what she's fantasizing about when she's using the black dildo.

A cuckold once said that he always had this fantasy of watching his pretty blonde wife have sex with a black guy. He said that when he finally saw it happening in real life, it was so much better than what he ever imagined. He was so aroused that he just ejaculated without even touching himself.

I hope you get your wife to have sex with a black guy. From what I have seen over the years, if a woman is not willing to swing, then she will probably not be open to cuckolding.

 

[MacNfries]

For a white guy to tell his white wife that he wants to watch her have sex with a black guy can be very difficult.

....I imagine its all the way you go about asking her. If they've never involved others in their sexual activities, there's no doubt that, unless she's the one bringing it up, it can be awkward asking a wife to have sex with someone else. But, if a couple has been together a while, and trusts each other, they should be able to have a civil conversation about 3-somes and swinging. Asking her to have a sexual relationship with a black male, however, could be difficult based upon how she reflects on racial issues as well as her attitude toward being with another man.

From what I have seen over the years, if a woman is not willing to swing, then she will probably not be open to cuckolding.

....One of the big concerns most women have with the topic is their concern over the husband might want to do the same with other women, or their husbands being bored with them. Cuckolding is a "labeling word" ... defining a man who's wife has sex with other men. If she fully understands that no reciprocation by the husband expected, she's probably more likely to consider a 3-some with her husband and other men. I can attest to the elevated sexual desire I get when I've seen my wife with another man; its almost indescribable.