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New2cuckoldmo

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Hi everyone. I’m new here and new to the possible cuckolding life. My wife and I have been together since high school. She was 15 and I was 17 when we met. We are now 26 and 24 and have been married five years.

A few weeks ago she brought up cuckolding. She said she heard a guy at her work talking about it. I didn’t even know what it was so we looked it up together. I thought she was just kidding and thought she would drop it. But she has brought it up a few more times since then and asks me what I think. Of course I don’t want her to be with someone else. She’s beautiful and has got even more beautiful since we first met.

She is the only girl I’ve been with and I’m the only guy she’s been with. I thought it would always be that way. Just struggling a little bit and not sure what to do. Thanks
 
My wife and I met early in college. I was only her second guy and she was my 4th, but I had only had sex a handful of times prior. We’ve now been together 25yrs. I don’t know how couples who don’t bring in outside playmates survive. Especially true if you’ve only ever had each other. You are missing so much.
My wife was kissed by her lesbian manager and that sparked our discussion. We started by going to a local sex club. We played w another 4some, but only the women played before we had sex in front of each other. We stayed that way for many years, but we were missing out. This was the days before apps and all this sexual knowledge. On a few occasions, she had ******* enough to lower her inhibitions and began to suck the other husband’s cock. It was an unexpected turn on and amazing to watch.
We would eventually become full swap swingers. In most cases we just swapped wives. It was hot, but we also learned from others. We would come back home and I would fuck her the same way she had just been fucked and talk in her ear about it. My deployments eventually led to her playing solo w other couples or husbands in my absence. Why should my wife suffer sexually just because I’m away. I enjoyed getting pics and videos. She’s my favorite porn star. That eventually led to unmarried single guys and more specifically BBC bulls.

Communication is critical between you two. It will be a struggle at times and there are complex emotions involved as well. “She’s never moaned like that for me!” Ok, but is that a bad thing? You both have limited experience. There is also an excitement to playing w someone new (often called New Relationship Energy). That’s something you two won’t have again, but it’s been replaced by a stronger bond that was built a time. The benefit of others is being able to share in the NRE. You two are a team who’s goal is each other’s pleasure. You two should be excited to see the other in pleasure. You just need to work through the selfish emotions that go with that.

“Cuckold” is a very broad term. We enjoy MFM 3some play mostly and there is no submissive power dynamic. Others on here are happy to put on lace panties while a bull fucks their mouth and they clean up their wife’s dripping pussy. I suggest you start slow. Look for sex clubs or parties where you live. Go the first time and maybe decide you will just watch. Then maybe she just sucks a guys cock, maybe it’s ok to have your cock sucked. “cuck queens” are a thing too!
Good luck.
 
I was 15 and she was 13 when we started dating for 40 years it was just sex between me and her. In our forties I suggest a swingers lifestyle with other couples and she said she was not interested so then later on I asked how about just adding another guy and she said that she would give that a chance. It only took once and she was much more willing to meet other guys and even couples. We have had so many great times and met so many awesome people.
 
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My wife and I met early in college. I was only her second guy and she was my 4th, but I had only had sex a handful of times prior. We’ve now been together 25yrs. I don’t know how couples who don’t bring in outside playmates survive. Especially true if you’ve only ever had each other. You are missing so much.
My wife was kissed by her lesbian manager and that sparked our discussion. We started by going to a local sex club. We played w another 4some, but only the women played before we had sex in front of each other. We stayed that way for many years, but we were missing out. This was the days before apps and all this sexual knowledge. On a few occasions, she had ******* enough to lower her inhibitions and began to suck the other husband’s cock. It was an unexpected turn on and amazing to watch.
We would eventually become full swap swingers. In most cases we just swapped wives. It was hot, but we also learned from others. We would come back home and I would fuck her the same way she had just been fucked and talk in her ear about it. My deployments eventually led to her playing solo w other couples or husbands in my absence. Why should my wife suffer sexually just because I’m away. I enjoyed getting pics and videos. She’s my favorite porn star. That eventually led to unmarried single guys and more specifically BBC bulls.

Communication is critical between you two. It will be a struggle at times and there are complex emotions involved as well. “She’s never moaned like that for me!” Ok, but is that a bad thing? You both have limited experience. There is also an excitement to playing w someone new (often called New Relationship Energy). That’s something you two won’t have again, but it’s been replaced by a stronger bond that was built a time. The benefit of others is being able to share in the NRE. You two are a team who’s goal is each other’s pleasure. You two should be excited to see the other in pleasure. You just need to work through the selfish emotions that go with that.

“Cuckold” is a very broad term. We enjoy MFM 3some play mostly and there is no submissive power dynamic. Others on here are happy to put on lace panties while a bull fucks their mouth and they clean up their wife’s dripping pussy. I suggest you start slow. Look for sex clubs or parties where you live. Go the first time and maybe decide you will just watch. Then maybe she just sucks a guys cock, maybe it’s ok to have your cock sucked. “cuck queens” are a thing too!
Good luck.
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Thank you for your well thought out response. I guess it just surprised me because she’s never been very open to new things sexually. And we’ve only been married for five years. I thought I would be enough for her. I can’t imagine her being with another guy. We have not tried many new things sexually but I always thought some day we’d do all that stuff together. I don’t know. I love her so much so I’m trying to be open minded.
 
New2cuckoldmo said:
Hi everyone. I’m new here and new to the possible cuckolding life. My wife and I have been together since high school. She was 15 and I was 17 when we met. We are now 26 and 24 and have been married five years.

A few weeks ago she brought up cuckolding. She said she heard a guy at her work talking about it. I didn’t even know what it was so we looked it up together. I thought she was just kidding and thought she would drop it. But she has brought it up a few more times since then and asks me what I think. Of course I don’t want her to be with someone else. She’s beautiful and has got even more beautiful since we first met.

She is the only girl I’ve been with and I’m the only guy she’s been with. I thought it would always be that way. Just struggling a little bit and not sure what to do. Thanks
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Sounds like your wife is very curious and would love to explore the hotwife lifestyle you should let her find out you both might enjoy it
 
Mrmrsfun said:
I was 15 and she was 13 when we started dating for 45 years it was just sex between me and her. In our forties I suggest a swingers lifestyle with other couples and she said she was not interested so then later on I asked how about just adding another guy and she said that she would give that a chance. It only took once and she was much more willing to meet other guys and even couples. We have had so many great times and met so many awesome people.
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We’ve only been married five years so I don’t understand why she wants this already.
 
But she never had a high sex drive before. We are very limited on what we’ve done sexually together. She was shy and quiet most of our relationship. As she’s getting older, she’s been focusing more on working out and she really looks great. It’s giving her more confidence but it hasn’t really changed our sex life.
 
New2cuckoldmo said:
But she never had a high sex drive before. We are very limited on what we’ve done sexually together. She was shy and quiet most of our relationship. As she’s getting older, she’s been focusing more on working out and she really looks great. It’s giving her more confidence but it hasn’t really changed our sex life.
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Her age is telling her not to miss out on some sexual fun
 
New2cuckoldmo said:
Thank you for your well thought out response. I guess it just surprised me because she’s never been very open to new things sexually. And we’ve only been married for five years. I thought I would be enough for her. I can’t imagine her being with another guy. We have not tried many new things sexually but I always thought some day we’d do all that stuff together. I don’t know. I love her so much so I’m trying to be open minded.
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My wife was a good catholic girl. She didn’t know what she was missing. She found out quickly. You only have one life to live. The analogy of eating at the same restaurant for the rest of your life is a pretty accurate one. They may have a diverse menu, but it’s still the same place.
Don’t ever think it’s about you. It’s about life experiences for you and her. The benefit about being married is that now it’s a journey and experience you are enjoying together. Even when my wife plays solo, we share that experience. I love knowing she is happy. That is all that matters. She is still always coming home to me. And just a hint, women can handle (& may desire) more than you can offer. I first new my wife needed more when even fucking her and using a toy still left her horney at times. It was clear she needed two guys. Even then, she would enjoy orgasm after orgasm.

Start slow, go out and shop for toys together (or search online). Enjoy porn together and talk about scenarios you find hot. Then maybe go out to a club or house party (DM for some guidance). Go slow at first. Put yourself in simple situations and see how the emotions develop to meet the fantasy. Pace yourself and always be willing to step back for a moment. Talk a lot!!!!! Set boundaries to start, but understand there will be mistakes in the heat of the moment. Don’t think any lesser of yourself because she wants others. I’m sure you do too. Having an open marriage has only made our marriage stronger.
 
Modern white wives are learning about the joy of having sex with other men besides their husbands,especially black men. The guy at work telling her about this probably wants to fuck her and cuckolding makes it easier to get in a married woman's panties. Atleast she is telling you about it and not just cheating on you behind your back. If your marriage is solid in most cases cuckolding can be a positive experience. Set the ground rules now,and always be included in her play,or it doesn't happen. Make it something you only do together,to enhance your marriage and your sexlife.
 
Mypete said:
Modern white wives are learning about the joy of having sex with other men besides their husbands,especially black men. The guy at work telling her about this probably wants to fuck her and cuckolding makes it easier to get in a married woman's panties. Atleast she is telling you about it and not just cheating on you behind your back. If your marriage is solid in most cases cuckolding can be a positive experience. Set the ground rules now,and always be included in her play,or it doesn't happen. Make it something you only do together,to enhance your marriage and your sexlife.
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Yes, I’m glad she was honest with me. I realize it must have been difficult for her to tell me how she felt. I’m glad she just didn’t cheat on me. It’s still hard for me to think about. I didn’t even know cuckolding existed before she brought it up.
 
Look into it some more with her,maybe watch some cuckold movies together. X hamster porn site has a bunch of cuckold movies. I always enjoyed watching my wife taking cock,and expanding her sexual horizons! I wish she was still into it! If you decide to venture into the lifestyle,the number one rule is that the marriage comes first,and anything that tries to come between the marriage has to go!
 
I’m the one that is generally finding guys for my wife, but she hates that process. You two working together would be fun. I filter through them, have the initial chat, lay some ground rules and so forth before ever going forward.
I didn’t originally catch that this was a corworker or familiar person, but I would avoid this to start. Early on, it’s important to keep the sex and familiarity separate. Meeting someone and playing with them is very separate than having a relationship (work, friend…). One you can separate and the other you can’t.
 
She never has been sexually adventurous. I’ve tried doing new things with her but she was never interested. We’ve only had sex in missionary position. We’ve always used condoms. I’ve never had a blowjob. I always assumed most girls were like her and that kind of stuff was only in porn. That’s why when she brought up cuckolding, it completely surprised me. I always thought we be each others only sexual partner, especially after I married her.
 
New2cuckoldmo said:
Hi everyone. I’m new here and new to the possible cuckolding life. My wife and I have been together since high school. She was 15 and I was 17 when we met. We are now 26 and 24 and have been married five years.

A few weeks ago she brought up cuckolding. She said she heard a guy at her work talking about it. I didn’t even know what it was so we looked it up together. I thought she was just kidding and thought she would drop it. But she has brought it up a few more times since then and asks me what I think. Of course I don’t want her to be with someone else. She’s beautiful and has got even more beautiful since we first met.

She is the only girl I’ve been with and I’m the only guy she’s been with. I thought it would always be that way. Just struggling a little bit and not sure what to do. Thanks
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I would just be open and honest with her about how you feel about it and maybe ask her what excites her about it. Maybe try to fantasize with her and bring it into the bedroom and see how she reacts.
I always thought that it was macho to be upset if men looked at my wife or tried to talk to her. It's hardly about the other people involved and more about seeing your wife get what she wants or even what she deserves. As long as you guys have boundaries and communicate about what you both want it could be a great experience. I do see your hesitation though, but I've read that some people do this before they even get married, so there is no timeline and it may not be that she is bored. It could be something she has thought about for a long time. And don't forget it takes a lot of courage on her behalf to want to bring it up to you as there is always that fear that you will reject her or become upset. I think y'all just need to sit down and have a real conversation, ask what brought it up, ask what she wants, what she finds exciting about it, how she would feel if you played as well (if that is something you also want), and just talk it out.
There are so many dynamics in the lifestyle that you can talk it out and maybe find what you like too. You can couple swap, watch her play solo, have a threesome, be a stag/vixen, she can be QoS, there are so many different things to look at than just looking at is as cuckolding because it is so broad than what the mainstream believes it is.
My wife and i have been together since I was 17 and her 15 and it has been something I've tried to get her into and talk to her about for the last few years and we finally tried it for the first time recently and I really enjoyed it!
Feel free to reach out if you have any questions or just want to talk.
 
New2cuckoldmo said:
Hi everyone. I’m new here and new to the possible cuckolding life. My wife and I have been together since high school. She was 15 and I was 17 when we met. We are now 26 and 24 and have been married five years.

A few weeks ago she brought up cuckolding. She said she heard a guy at her work talking about it. I didn’t even know what it was so we looked it up together. I thought she was just kidding and thought she would drop it. But she has brought it up a few more times since then and asks me what I think. Of course I don’t want her to be with someone else. She’s beautiful and has got even more beautiful since we first met.

She is the only girl I’ve been with and I’m the only guy she’s been with. I thought it would always be that way. Just struggling a little bit and not sure what to do. Thanks
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Still around op?

If so, what's since happened? And how or why did you come here to B2W? Was the coworker black?
 
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