Hi, I am 38 married. I wanna try another man, but without hurting hubby. how to go abt it

My wife was always uncomfortable with me being there or talking about what they did or even letting me know she was meeting a man... But little did she know that I was setting her up with almost all the men she was fucking, advising them on what she liked in a man and how to seduce her and setting up many of her initial meets with those men. I am sure she thought she was keeping me in the dark but almost all the men were telling me about what they did, many bragging about those sex things she would do with them and would not do with me. I was a happy cuckold
 
My wife was always uncomfortable with me being there or talking about what they did or even letting me know she was meeting a man... But little did she know that I was setting her up with almost all the men she was fucking, advising them on what she liked in a man and how to seduce her and setting up many of her initial meets with those men. I am sure she thought she was keeping me in the dark but almost all the men were telling me about what they did, many bragging about those sex things she would do with them and would not do with me. I was a happy cuckold
 
Oh great!

Do what most have suggested. If you and your husband are a great couple and communicate well then just tell him how you feel. But bring it up in small amounts and see how he reacts. If our watch IR porn together simply ask him if he would ever like to see you do that or if he ever thinks about one of those bbc taking you for a ride. As always gauge reaction and if he is going along with it keep moving in that direction. You’ll be riding a bbc before you know it while he sits by the bed with that look of awe on his face.
 
Do what most have suggested. If you and your husband are a great couple and communicate well then just tell him how you feel. But bring it up in small amounts and see how he reacts. If our watch IR porn together simply ask him if he would ever like to see you do that or if he ever thinks about one of those bbc taking you for a ride. As always gauge reaction and if he is going along with it keep moving in that direction. You’ll be riding a bbc before you know it while he sits by the bed with that look of awe on his face.
. Always better to bring the husband along. Sometimes slow and gradual works better. Make it a turn on for him too. Many cuck husbands cant help themselves and get a huge hard on watching BBC with the wife. But can be ego crushing if not done right.
 
You really should try before you buy? Why put him through all the crap if it turns out something not for you.You can't be objective at the moment. Find s BBC and go for it and ,and only then if you think it's worth moving on put the other measures in place.You need to answer your own questions first because they will not go away until you do.
 
If you’re bisexual try offering him a FFM threesome. It’ll make him more compliant to your wishes. After he gets to enjoy sex with two beautiful women casually bring up that you wonder what it would be like with two men. If he takes the bait then start looking for an eligible candidate of your choosing. You have every right to be picky. With any luck he’ll be up for it.
 
Those postings scream it's actually a guy behind them. Does anyone else see that? *wondering* *SmH*
Yes. Totally agree. These suggestions of cheating and sneaking around is just pathetic. Like another said, they don't have skin in the game so they can say whatever they want without the consequences of a POTENTIALLY good outcome, but most likely a crushed husband and a broken marriage.

Don't beat around the bush. Communicate your wishes. Be mindful of his feelings but just communicate.
 
Yes. Totally agree. These suggestions of cheating and sneaking around is just pathetic. Like another said, they don't have skin in the game so they can say whatever they want without the consequences of a POTENTIALLY good outcome, but most likely a crushed husband and a broken marriage.

Don't beat around the bush. Communicate your wishes. Be mindful of his feelings but just communicate.
My former statement also includes the OP. What woman would mention the following in the initial statement in this context? ...
(...) Hubby small. I wanna try a real man (...)
*lol*

And then, even "she" said
I wanna him to watch how and what I need.
"she" then said
I will try secretly
. Isn't that contradictory? just sayin' :rolleyes:
 
I am not sure how hubby would react , so would try secretly, but my fantasy is hubby to watch and more. In fact now I had behind him a blk guy.
 
Have a few drinks to lighten the mood and then put on some interracial porn. Tell him how hot the white women look fucking black guys and see what he says or say do you think they look hot fucking black men. Tell him how wet it makes you to see it and watch. Then try to say how hot it would be to be one of the women in the videos and he see how he responds. You could also try to find ameature interracial cuckold porn on homemovies porn or youporn/xhamster and say how hot of an idea it is.

Then the next step is going online and finding a black dildo for you play with while the two of you watch interracial porn together. You or your hubby can use it on your pussy as say how good it feels and ask him if it’s hot seeing a black dildo in your wife’s pussy and go from there.

Baby steps and hopefully you will be looking for a black bull to fulfill your desires. Your hubby is an lucky guy! You are gorgeous and to have a woman want to engage and enjoy the lifestyle is very rare.

Good luck and have fun!
 
If you’re bisexual try offering him a FFM threesome. It’ll make him more compliant to your wishes. After he gets to enjoy sex with two beautiful women casually bring up that you wonder what it would be like with two men. If he takes the bait then start looking for an eligible candidate of your choosing. You have every right to be picky. With any luck he’ll be up for it.
My idea exactly!
 
Have a few drinks to lighten the mood and then put on some interracial porn. Tell him how hot the white women look fucking black guys and see what he says or say do you think they look hot fucking black men. Tell him how wet it makes you to see it and watch. Then try to say how hot it would be to be one of the women in the videos and he see how he responds. You could also try to find ameature interracial cuckold porn on homemovies porn or youporn/xhamster and say how hot of an idea it is.

Then the next step is going online and finding a black dildo for you play with while the two of you watch interracial porn together. You or your hubby can use it on your pussy as say how good it feels and ask him if it’s hot seeing a black dildo in your wife’s pussy and go from there.

Baby steps and hopefully you will be looking for a black bull to fulfill your desires. Your hubby is an lucky guy! You are gorgeous and to have a woman want to engage and enjoy the lifestyle is very rare.

Good luck and have fun!
Oh thanks, its sounds so logical and natural I will try that.
 
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