Hesitant girlfriend…

[whitepvnda]

You don't want too push her too much she might end up going off it . You got have you time too have sex without the fantasy she will think you just like her for that and not her anymore. I think your realistically dreaming about her sleeping with someone last night I highly doubt she would do it. I even think you want her to fuck a guy without you there too she might not like that or feel safe . Isn't a fantasy you both want to share together and experience? I want to watch every second not him have her on his own but that's just me

 

[jxjx]

You don't want too push her too much she might end up going off it . You got have you time too have sex without the fantasy she will think you just like her for that and not her anymore. I think your realistically dreaming about her sleeping with someone last night I highly doubt she would do it. I even think you want her to fuck a guy without you there too she might not like that or feel safe . Isn't a fantasy you both want to share together and experience? I want to watch every second not him have her on his own but that's just me

Exactly this.

I am going to lay off it now for a bit. She understands it all now doesn’t she. I’ve put my groundwork in which can now turn into a slow burner from now.

She didn’t text me last night for two hours, and then she text me saying “I’m just on my way home now babe xxxxxx”

I then text her “oh right - Ours or your mum and dads? xx”

She didn’t text back for a good hour, then I just thought I’d text her this…



A minute or two after that text, she rings me and says that she has literally felt sick all the way from Birmingham in the taxi, held it in and she was sick as soon as she got in and has been dying with all the drinkk she’s had.

We spoke about her night for 5 minutes and then we said “night” to each other and that was it. Night over. Off to sleeep.

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She rings me at 7:00am which is unusual of her because she would definitely sleeep in on a Sunday morning until about 9:00am. She was just telling me that her mum and dad’s dog was annoying her all night, barking and she’s had no sleeep from it. Which is what she was complaining about when they asked her to look after the dog whilst they go out for the weekend. We spoke for like 20 minutes about her night and I told her that I’m off to the gym. She said she’s going to try and have a sleeep for a couple more hours.

I have now turned into super boyfriend mode… I text her “I love you angel and looking forward to our snoozy day ”

She must be asleep as she hadn’t text for a long while. 1.5 hours later, I send her a gif of me making coffee from the Nespresso machine with a text saying “wake up and smell the coffee”… she FaceTime’d me straight away and she was just talking to me again about general things. She then went to the toilet, and she showed me how soaking wet she was. She said “look at this” and I’m like “omg, your knickers are soaking” and she said “I know, it’s what you do to me. You’ve made me start dreaming about sex, I’m having all these sex dreams now because of you”

I just laughed and didn’t play on it like I usually would.

A few minutes later, I told her I’m jumping in the shower. She said “me too, I’m gonna sit on the shower head I think” and I started laughing, I said “why would you do that?” And she said “what do you think Jaime?”

Then she said “I’m only joking” and laughed.

Can you see why it’s so hard to not say anything to her about this fantasy. She is just so naughty.
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Any advice or help from this would be great. Shall I just carry on being super boyfriend and lay off it for a few days…

 

[bunnybliss]

Exactly this.

I am going to lay off it now for a bit. She understands it all now doesn’t she. I’ve put my groundwork in which can now turn into a slow burner from now.

She didn’t text me last night for two hours, and then she text me saying “I’m just on my way home now babe xxxxxx”

I then text her “oh right - Ours or your mum and dads? xx”

She didn’t text back for a good hour, then I just thought I’d text her this…

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A minute or two after that text, she rings me and says that she has literally felt sick all the way from Birmingham in the taxi, held it in and she was sick as soon as she got in and has been dying with all the drinkk she’s had.

We spoke about her night for 5 minutes and then we said “night” to each other and that was it. Night over. Off to sleeep.

———————

She rings me at 7:00am which is unusual of her because she would definitely sleeep in on a Sunday morning until about 9:00am. She was just telling me that her mum and dad’s dog was annoying her all night, barking and she’s had no sleeep from it. Which is what she was complaining about when they asked her to look after the dog whilst they go out for the weekend. We spoke for like 20 minutes about her night and I told her that I’m off to the gym. She said she’s going to try and have a sleeep for a couple more hours.

I have now turned into super boyfriend mode… I text her “I love you angel and looking forward to our snoozy day ”

She must be asleep as she hadn’t text for a long while. 1.5 hours later, I send her a gif of me making coffee from the Nespresso machine with a text saying “wake up and smell the coffee”… she FaceTime’d me straight away and she was just talking to me again about general things. She then went to the toilet, and she showed me how soaking wet she was. She said “look at this” and I’m like “omg, your knickers are soaking” and she said “I know, it’s what you do to me. You’ve made me start dreaming about sex, I’m having all these sex dreams now because of you”

I just laughed and didn’t play on it like I usually would.

A few minutes later, I told her I’m jumping in the shower. She said “me too, I’m gonna sit on the shower head I think” and I started laughing, I said “why would you do that?” And she said “what do you think Jaime?”

Then she said “I’m only joking” and laughed.

Can you see why it’s so hard to not say anything to her about this fantasy. She is just so naughty.
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Any advice or help from this would be great. Shall I just carry on being super boyfriend and lay off it for a few days…

Oh yesss its perfect for you! you set this up well. lay off it for a few days if you can. Play super boyfriend. I would even say make yourself busy. Give her more alone time if you ca find time or space to do so. Let her use the dildos on her own more often and encourage her masturbating, you have conditioned her mind to think about sex everyday, so she is either dreaming of bbc or big dick in general and being pounded or dreaming of you and having those cute romantic sex dreams. Either or, making her squirm alittle and become slightly sexually frustrated might help her seek out that kind of porn on her own, or even think of being shared since it turns you on. She is seemingly more and more aroused by the thought of being penetrated. Just gotta convince her she deserves to be penetrated by the best she could ever experience and experimenting is something that would be fun for the both of you.

 

[madcuck]

did she get any number ? some talking to anyone happened that deserves to be mentioned here ?

You are doing it great so far and you are right , she seems to be very naughty girl , I am pretty sure you will get what you want if you play the Dance Club thing previously mentioned and honestly I find it very erotic and enjoyable scenario for both of you


Please please please more pics of her
Good luck mate

 

[private eye]

I have been following your thread. I think she is ready to be blacked but personally I would want it to be a shared experience.

Like another poster said, it’s time to have a talk about making this happen together. However, if you keep pushing her to do it on her own it may result in you losing her. She may decide she doesn’t need you there once she fucks a bbc. She can arrange her own entertainment. That could end up with you on the outside looking in. It sounds like she loves you. I believe it’s up to you to make it happen for both of you together.

I also believe you should be watching IR porn together. Perfect for pillow talk. Good luck in your adventures.

 

[Wboi]

I have been following your thread. I think she is ready to be blacked but personally I would want it to be a shared experience.

Like another poster said, it’s time to have a talk about making this happen together. However, if you keep pushing her to do it on her own it may result in you losing her. She may decide she doesn’t need you there once she fucks a bbc. She can arrange her own entertainment. That could end up with you on the outside looking in. It sounds like she loves you. I believe it’s up to you to make it happen for both of you together.

I also believe you should be watching IR porn together. Perfect for pillow talk. Good luck in your adventures.

I said the same thing to him. She's drop dead gorgeous, and loves him. If she came into a bar and I was present, I would be hitting on her, and with my skills, I bet I pull her

 

[CuriousBlake]

Exactly this.

I am going to lay off it now for a bit. She understands it all now doesn’t she. I’ve put my groundwork in which can now turn into a slow burner from now.

She didn’t text me last night for two hours, and then she text me saying “I’m just on my way home now babe xxxxxx”

I then text her “oh right - Ours or your mum and dads? xx”

She didn’t text back for a good hour, then I just thought I’d text her this…

View attachment 6062972

A minute or two after that text, she rings me and says that she has literally felt sick all the way from Birmingham in the taxi, held it in and she was sick as soon as she got in and has been dying with all the drinkk she’s had.

We spoke about her night for 5 minutes and then we said “night” to each other and that was it. Night over. Off to sleeep.

———————

She rings me at 7:00am which is unusual of her because she would definitely sleeep in on a Sunday morning until about 9:00am. She was just telling me that her mum and dad’s dog was annoying her all night, barking and she’s had no sleeep from it. Which is what she was complaining about when they asked her to look after the dog whilst they go out for the weekend. We spoke for like 20 minutes about her night and I told her that I’m off to the gym. She said she’s going to try and have a sleeep for a couple more hours.

I have now turned into super boyfriend mode… I text her “I love you angel and looking forward to our snoozy day ”

She must be asleep as she hadn’t text for a long while. 1.5 hours later, I send her a gif of me making coffee from the Nespresso machine with a text saying “wake up and smell the coffee”… she FaceTime’d me straight away and she was just talking to me again about general things. She then went to the toilet, and she showed me how soaking wet she was. She said “look at this” and I’m like “omg, your knickers are soaking” and she said “I know, it’s what you do to me. You’ve made me start dreaming about sex, I’m having all these sex dreams now because of you”

I just laughed and didn’t play on it like I usually would.

A few minutes later, I told her I’m jumping in the shower. She said “me too, I’m gonna sit on the shower head I think” and I started laughing, I said “why would you do that?” And she said “what do you think Jaime?”

Then she said “I’m only joking” and laughed.

Can you see why it’s so hard to not say anything to her about this fantasy. She is just so naughty.
—————

Any advice or help from this would be great. Shall I just carry on being super boyfriend and lay off it for a few days…

Did you ask what type of dreams?
She said she’s been dreaming of sex, but she might have been giving you an opening to say with bbc

My gf did the exact same thing because were not responsible for our dreams so it was a good way for her to test the waters
She woke up one morning and said she had a sexy dream and I asked what happened
And she got all shy and then finally caved and said I think you were there
I asked what she meant and she said it was mostly just Jason Luv

 

[mygirlsapawg]

You should definitely incorporate more IR porn, slowly slowly, and use the toys on her, share with us some pics and I might even be encouraged to share back

 

[jxjx]

she was telling me about the event last night. Telling me it was mega raunchy. I asked what were the guys like and she said “ewww, they were just ewww” and I asked “really?” She said “oh god yeh, ew” and I said “that’s surprising as they are meant to be like Dream Boys” and then she said “well, they weren’t ewww, I guess they were alryyyttt”

I personally think she’s downplaying it.

She said “they literally were stripping everything off, even the thong, everything! Grinding on women’s faces, grabbing women’s hands and putting their hands all over them” and I said “were they big?” and she said “yeeee, they all were” then she said “one of the girls said Ive just text my boyfriend and told him that all there dicks are massive, why am I even with you”

Anyway, that’s the update so far.

Good to know they were all well-endowed “massive” as she described. This event couldn’t have been timed more perfectly

We are going home now, let’s see how she is tonight sexually.

 

[bunnybliss]

I wonder if she was dreaming of their huge cocks. Well i hope you two have LOADS of fun. See if she goes for the dildos on her own

 

[ghettored]

Was any of the guys black? did she get to touch any?

 

[Wboi]

she was telling me about the event last night. Telling me it was mega raunchy. I asked what were the guys like and she said “ewww, they were just ewww” and I asked “really?” She said “oh god yeh, ew” and I said “that’s surprising as they are meant to be like Dream Boys” and then she said “well, they weren’t ewww, I guess they were alryyyttt”

I personally think she’s downplaying it.

She said “they literally were stripping everything off, even the thong, everything! Grinding on women’s faces, grabbing women’s hands and putting their hands all over them” and I said “were they big?” and she said “yeeee, they all were” then she said “one of the girls said Ive just text my boyfriend and told him that all there dicks are massive, why am I even with you”

Anyway, that’s the update so far.

Good to know they were all well-endowed “massive” as she described. This event couldn’t have been timed more perfectly

We are going home now, let’s see how she is tonight sexually.

Ask if she got involved in anything there, like touching, fantasizing

 

[bunnybliss]

Ask to go out with her as well. Just you two. Try toget her real ******* again without being sick, and purposefully makes friends with a black guy you think would fuck her brains out. Let her get loose on the dance floor with you maybe show her off real good and see who’s watching. Buy them a ******* and make her feel comfortable through and through and abort mission if it gets too weird for her. Say you were alittle tipsy and you were feeling overly friendly or something. But this would be further into your plot i think

 

[Wboi]

Ask to go out with her as well. Just you two. Try toget her real ******* again without being sick, and purposefully makes friends with a black guy you think would fuck her brains out. Let her get loose on the dance floor with you maybe show her off real good and see who’s watching. Buy them a ******* and make her feel comfortable through and through and abort mission if it gets too weird for her. Say you were alittle tipsy and you were feeling overly friendly or something. But this would be further into your plot i think

I mentioned a situation almost just like this , to him, but he mentioned they knew too many people??? Try a dance club to go to where black guys are known to go to there. Turn her loose, she dressed hot, black guys will give her a lot of attention

 

[Myhunger]

these suggestions are getting ridiculous

 

[Wboi]

these suggestions are getting ridiculous

This whole thing is

 

[jxjx]

Right okay. More progress.

We got home from her mums and dads. I asked her “what were these sex dreams then, what did they entail?”

Now, I was expecting an answer like “I can’t remember, it was blurry” or “just me and you babe”

She answered with no hesitation, “It was me basically in bed with a black man, having sex with him” with a big smile on her face

And I said “oh right”

And she looked at my dick, I’m wearing boxers. “Look at you getting hard already”

And I was like “well, obviously. You obviously liked it” and she was like “well, it did make me wet” and I smiled. I asked “was he big?” and she said “I can’t remember any fine detail as it went all so quick”

I was like “ohhh she’s liking this fantasy now”

And she was like “noooo, it was jus a dream, I’m laying down the laww”

And I was just smiling.

She said “I must have liked it, because otherwise I wouldn’t have been so wet but it’s going to go no further than our toys and a dream”

 

[Gandalf12]

Right okay. More progress.

We got home from her mums and dads. I asked her “what were these sex dreams then, what did they entail?”

Now, I was expecting an answer like “I can’t remember, it was blurry” or “just me and you babe”

She answered with no hesitation, “It was me basically in bed with a black man, having sex with him” with a big smile on her face

And I said “oh right”

And she looked at my dick, I’m wearing boxers. “Look at you getting hard already”

And I was like “well, obviously. You obviously liked it” and she was like “well, it did make me wet” and I smiled. I asked “was he big?” and she said “I can’t remember any fine detail as it went all so quick”

I was like “ohhh she’s liking this fantasy now”

And she was like “noooo, it was jus a dream, I’m laying down the laww”

And I was just smiling.

She said “I must have liked it, because otherwise I wouldn’t have been so wet but it’s going to go no further than our toys and a dream”

Just continue on this track then, playing with toys, encouraging her to dream more and fantisize herself. It will continue progressing in due time. Great stuff!

 

[jxjx]

I’m going to send her these when I feel like the time is right…

 

[Myhunger]

I’m going to send her these when I feel like the time is right…

Why would you do that? You have to know that what turns us on is not the same for the women. If you bombard her with your juvenile masturbation fantasies, you are going to only delay what you are hoping will happen.

Stop manipulating your girlfriend. When you try to get someone to do something that they didn’t initially want to do, that’s manipulation.

Now, if you’re trying to unlock, turn on’s and fantasies that she wasn’t comfortable expressing before, that is a different story. But you don’t do that by going at her like a 15-year-old boy, no offense.

Women, when they are first introduced to this lifestyle, have a large number of things to overcome. They are worried about their own ethics and morality. They are worried about if they start thinking about other men that someday you will want to have other women. Even though no one else may ever know, they still worry about what other people may think of them. They worry that this fantasy means you don’t want her the way you used to. They worry that you are pushing them into someone else’s arms and what that means. And 50 other things.

When I told you that you need to have conversations about it, I didn’t just mean you telling her your fantasies. A genuine cuckold relationship means that you put her pleasure first. While you are eager to please her, you are more focused on getting what you want.

I am saying this because I genuinely want good things for you to happen. This will not end the way you hope it will if you continue the way you are going.

Trying to convince her through big toys and porn and dirty memes is a little juvenile. If you want this to be real, and to be something that lasts, then treat her like the queen that she is, and approach her with vulnerability, and communicate, not just your needs and fantasies, But talk more about the WHY than the what.

If you want her to go along with your ideas, then she needs to understand where they come from. And then you need to encourage her to talk to you about her genuine interests, her hesitations, her fears. Only then well this turn into anything.

Right now, the best that you can hope for is that she gets laid on some drunken night that she will regret later. That’s not what you want.