Great idea this is!!
Hesitant girlfriend…
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Haha no, not the real gandalf (although I'd look wicked in a wizards hat, I'm sure)
Keep giving her space, enjoy the sense of endless possibilites! Oh, and keep us updated!
I would love to spoil her with BBCView attachment 6060351
She sends me this…
With no message. Just one photo.
I text her this…
Oh fuckin Christ
You know you always will have but you have defo got a free pass tonight babe. Fucking hell
Haha no, not the real gandalf (although I'd look wicked in a wizards hat, I'm sure)
Keep giving her space, enjoy the sense of endless possibilites! Oh, and keep us updated!
Hahah!
This was her response… Awwww ill let you off just dont do it again
xxxShall I jus not make any more comments tonight guys?
Perhaps something like "I'll do my best but I can't make any promisesHahah!
This was her response… Awwww ill let you off just dont do it again
Shall I jus not make any more comments tonight guys?
you turn me on just too much 
But I'll think I can manage tonight 
! Now have a great evening, you'll look killer on that dancefloor/in the club/" in your own words of course. Or don't, trust your gut!And then let her take the next step as well as just let her enjoy her evening
Patricia12
Female
Any chance to send through pic's of her taking SD dildo?
@jxjx hey man, ive never actually written anything here, usually just lurking, but you sound like youre from south england like me, possibly south east, ive been on the same journey as you, my girl is a hotty, cant shake the thought of watching her take a bbc, I can walk you through some of the steps I made if you like? Seems like youve done the biggest thing already by telling her about your fantasy, let me know if you wanna talk, ill send you pics of my girl too.
I put this …Perhaps something like "I'll do my best but I can't make any promises
And then let her take the next step as well as just let her enjoy her evening
Me: Ohhh, go awayyyy. Threatening me are weeee? x
Her: Nooo never
Me: Nastyyyy... Ye you were
I'll do my best but I can't make any promises
you turn me on just too much But I think I can manage tonight 
Her:
@jxjx
Just make sure you reassure her how gorgeous shes is and reinforce the love you have for her, she needs to feel safe with you, usually these things take time, as for the message she just sent she clearly loves teasing you too, is that what shes wearing tonight? ask her if shes wearing underwear, gotta let some things feel like theyre in her control too unless she shows sub tendancies.
Just make sure you reassure her how gorgeous shes is and reinforce the love you have for her, she needs to feel safe with you, usually these things take time, as for the message she just sent she clearly loves teasing you too, is that what shes wearing tonight? ask her if shes wearing underwear, gotta let some things feel like theyre in her control too unless she shows sub tendancies.
Holy hell, you have one beautiful woman there. Take good care of her!
Haha, I'll do what I can
"You know, if you keep teasing me like that, it will be much harder to keep that promise
You are insanely hot! 
""Am I bad for having these thoughts? I mean... black looks REALLY good on you
"This, very much this! Now I do know you already know what she's wearing but connect to her good looks, how you love her, love how beautiful and hot she is. Reaffirm her.
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The overriding theme I noticed along this small journey we’ve had so far is that she needs constant reassurance, what matters most to her is how sexy I make her feel when she’s doing things for me, it’s just a bonus she loves it herself now too. Must be hard to get your head around as a woman, for some men their woman being with another man is their worst nightmare so that must play a part, comes back to that security you need to give her, she may also think it might be a ploy to sleep with other women too, like a bargaining chip.
Just keep giving her that reassurance and if you feel her push back, ease off a bit.
I’ve read an awful lot of bits and pieces and most women don’t feel sexy so the constant reinforcement of how sexy and beautiful she is needs to be made, you can play with her but ultimately she needs to feel like she’s making some decisions and not being ******* into them, my girl started off by not really being bothered by BBC now she happily finds the videos for us “it’s our secret” as she calls it, makes me hard just thinking about it haha.
The overriding theme I noticed along this small journey we’ve had so far is that she needs constant reassurance, what matters most to her is how sexy I make her feel when she’s doing things for me, it’s just a bonus she loves it herself now too. Must be hard to get your head around as a woman, for some men their woman being with another man is their worst nightmare so that must play a part, comes back to that security you need to give her, she may also think it might be a ploy to sleep with other women too, like a bargaining chip.
Just keep giving her that reassurance and if you feel her push back, ease off a bit.
Wow, she's smokingI put this …
Me: Ohhh, go awayyyy. Threatening me are weeee? x
Her: Nooo never
Me: Nastyyyy... Ye you were
I'll do my best but I can't make any promises
Her: View attachment 6061031
hotHoly mom of god You know, if you keep teasing me like that, it will be much harder to keep that promise I mean I am not going to complain 
YOU
ARE
RIDICULOUS!
Am I bad for having these thoughts? I mean... black looks REALLY good on you
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Just waiting for her to get back to me now…
You know, if you keep teasing me like that, it will be much harder to keep that promise I mean I am not going to complain YOU
ARE
RIDICULOUS!
Am I bad for having these thoughts? I mean... black looks REALLY good on you
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Just waiting for her to get back to me now…
I'd say waayyyyy to soon! As in that step should be taken when NOT dru nk. And together.
Rather just ask her what she has been drinking, ask if she's having a good time etc. Tell her you love her and that you look forward to having her home again as you cannot stop thinking of her (make it hot!) but that she should have no rush home! Instead she should make sure to have a hell of an evening and enjoy herself!
Just don't tease the boys on the town too much, the other ladies will surely get jealous if she steals all the attention, as hot as she is, or somesuch!
Worth noting: She didn't say anything about you being bad. Neither for nor against, just laughing. A good sign I'd say.
She's going to get blacked soon, she wants it deep inside, and the BBC too. Only takes the right black man in the right situation and time.
