Maybe if you’re only looking for a select few people to connect with and become friends with benefits does it make sense to meet in person at lifestyle clubs and parties. I avoid those places for exactly that reason. I’m not interested in finding someone I’m compatible with. I already found that man. Sluts like me want to experience lots of hot guys with big cocks. You’re generally not going to find them at the swingers club where there’s no barrier to entry based on appearance. The other benefit of not going to lifestyle clubs is that I don’t have to deal with white guys hitting on me. It’s the 21st century and if you can’t figure out how to meet people online for sex then you’re just not savvy.
One of the benefits of being a content creator is that I have plenty of well endowed black men reaching out to me. This also allows me to be picky if I want (though I do end up getting fucked and seeded by the majority of black men that I connect with online
). I’ve streamlined my process for meeting guys as much as is possible and it’s at the very least 3 days from first communication to meeting to fuck. Normally it takes a week or two since they have to provide recent clean test results. This has been my system for the past year which has allowed me to get fucked by 61 different black men in that time.
That’s the difference between a vanilla lifestyler and a QOS.