Its a tough one, I tend to masturbate while watching her, but I also suffer from extreme premature ejaculation issues, so sometimes I accidentally cum without wanting to or when i'm ready to. I tend to wear a condom just in case I get cum on them while they are trying to enjoy themselves (most bulls definitely don't want the cucks cum anywhere near them for any reason). If I can make it to the end of the night, i'll 'reclaim' my wife, but once again, its over so quickly its almost not as enjoyable as masturbating where I have a little more control over myself.