For us it's about honestly and being respectful.
Be honest about what one is looking for, and one will be more successful finding good matches. We've found many couples over the years on other swing sites where one or both members are indicated as "straight", but upon chatting find that one (usually the husband, because honestly most people accept bi women as "hot") is actually bi and only reveals that privately. That's their choice, but we always find it curious because they probably lose out on meeting a lot of singles and couples that may be what they are actually looking for.
We are honest about our preferences, although not requirements, and when we start chatting with a new friend we make sure they are aware in the initial conversations about our preferences and ask them about their comfort with those
Be respectful of other's interests and boundaries.
We encourage our new friends to let us know what their interests are, and aren't, and we don't judge. We've never had a new friend ridicule or disrespect us when we've been honest and asked up-front about their interests, and we in turn would never judge them on their response. We respect their interests, just as everyone so far here has been respectful when they've responded to clarify what their interests are or aren't.
Again, if one is honest, respectful, and makes sure everyone knows about each other's expectations and boundaries, one is much more likely to have a good time. We're all busy, and often have to find time to play around life's other priorities, so don't waste that time with bad encounters because someone was dishonest with the other party, or themselves. We've found everyone here and other sites to be very accepting and appreciative of our up-front approach, even if it is to say "sorry, not interested"
Be honest about what one is looking for, and one will be more successful finding good matches. We've found many couples over the years on other swing sites where one or both members are indicated as "straight", but upon chatting find that one (usually the husband, because honestly most people accept bi women as "hot") is actually bi and only reveals that privately. That's their choice, but we always find it curious because they probably lose out on meeting a lot of singles and couples that may be what they are actually looking for.
We are honest about our preferences, although not requirements, and when we start chatting with a new friend we make sure they are aware in the initial conversations about our preferences and ask them about their comfort with those
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Be respectful of other's interests and boundaries.
We encourage our new friends to let us know what their interests are, and aren't, and we don't judge. We've never had a new friend ridicule or disrespect us when we've been honest and asked up-front about their interests, and we in turn would never judge them on their response. We respect their interests, just as everyone so far here has been respectful when they've responded to clarify what their interests are or aren't.
Again, if one is honest, respectful, and makes sure everyone knows about each other's expectations and boundaries, one is much more likely to have a good time. We're all busy, and often have to find time to play around life's other priorities, so don't waste that time with bad encounters because someone was dishonest with the other party, or themselves. We've found everyone here and other sites to be very accepting and appreciative of our up-front approach, even if it is to say "sorry, not interested"
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