Sorry, it just does not work like that. Additionally my husband knows me very well and what I like and I not going to trust a gangbang party like that to be set up an organized my some other guy lol. No one was the east suspicious and the men we invited were very interested and enjoyed it as it was well organized and all the men and couples who attended had a great time and wanted to attend the next party.
In my case, I have been with my Bull for 4 yrs and sexually he knows me I think better than my husband since he was the one who broke me in to the IR lifestyle in countless ways! My Bull and all his friends have a circle of us married women they all share so he sets up amazing parties for us with men he knows can definitely perform and are hung like, well, Bulls lol.