Yes north California, close tto Eureka
frustrated
- Thread starter whtcpl4fun
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All is alright with you two in regards to the Camp fire I hope.
One day maybe
Yes it is thanks for asking. We were getting smoke blowing this way but that was all
It almost seems like some of them think there is some kind of “catch” to the situation because it seems too good to be true. That is the vibe I always get when we meet someone who is ready until the time comes to make the next step. I miss Craigslist lol..
Wow, yet again another thread about Bullshiters, and no shows. Yes it happens on both sides of the fence here. It is super furstrating to hear about BBC Bulls not following thru on their agreed meetings. And equally fustrating to have women, and couples be all talk. I'm real and 100% on my meetings. Unless something outside of my hands prevents it(a Rarity). even then I keep my waiting BBC sluts informed of the situation. I think i will start a thread on here called Legitimate. Where me and any woman or couple that have had a meeting confirm that we are legit. Hell, with pic's if some want. And anyone else can can see who is real about their meets. But (unfortunately) that won't be until i have a meet thur this site. Which is only giving me a lot of talk at the moment. Which is ok, but Fuck, talk is cheap, and I'm for real action.
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bbcbully4fun
Male
OwnedWife4good
Female
I've had the same issue count less times on about every site over the last 15 years. What I found works best is Airport lounge's, gyms, and co-workers.
Most of these guys are wimps, they think they can pleasure a woman in front of her man or husband then get stage fright. At leas have the decency to say I am not coming. If you were in London I would be pounding that pussy all the time
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ncbbccuckcpl
Guest
That has been the overwhelming constant... they talk a good game and then they no show. OR if they do show, the story is totally different from the conversations that were had before meeting.
rocknrobin007
Couple
It is unfortunate that there are many fakes and wannabees on all swinging type of sites that seem to use the sites to fill thier sexual fantasys while wasting the time of us true players. Over 20 years in the IR lifestyle it has happened to Robin and i numerous times and it is quite discouraging and disappointing. We spend the time to find black men by either contacting them or visa versa....check thier profiles...chat...talk....honestly think that thier interest to meet is sincere and then find ourselves sitting in a bar or lounge watching the clock and then finally realizing they are a no show...or even better are the ones who call you about 30 minutes before the meet and give a bullshit excuse why they wont be there. Whewe get the idea that they are not going to show up tho...we will not call them and give them the satisfaction of knowing that we are there waiting and wasting our time. Sometimes I feel like we are giving away free pussy and have no takers.lol. But on the flip side there are many great black men who are true players and show up on time and enjoy meeting white couples and everyone has a wonderful time.
OwnedWife4good
Female
Oh exactly, I have met guys who look nothing like their pictures. Mood killer.
rocknrobin007
Couple
They really put us on the hotseat when they show up and look nothing like thier pics for sure.....but Robin has no problem letting them know that and telling them she isnt interested. One of the safety factors of meeting in a public place...not much they can do but accept it and move on.
They even go that far and post fake pics and still show up wtf. I can’t believe that lol.. not to laugh but these guys are crazy. Man I wish I could have pussy on tap like that
. Always people who want sex but matchups are alway complicated. Still lots of intimidation but really helps when both agree at the beginning that they both want / need good sex.
well said...by the say you sexy as hell...maybe we can chat sometime and have some fun
Easygliderpro
Male
There could be many reasons, probably you will never know why anyone backs out or have cold feet.
I personally won’t meet up any couple on a first date, but rather meet up with the lady first in public places, to feel each other out, if all goes well, second date to meet them both.
Some men lose interest or backs out at the last minute when, the lady whom he went out to meet, she is NOT the same person as in her profile. For example, your profile pictures are not current or up to date. You look much older, gained or lost weight. Your dress appearance looks too modest or slutty, the atmosphere place awkward or all whites there, lol,....etc.
To ease up some doubts or eliminate any guessing about meeting anyone, make sure both of you are verified n real, use face-face video chat like, Skype or WhatsApp... etc.
Also, I like to see how any white man pretending to be black, can pull this thing off?
Hey ladies, don’t overthink it. When it gets to the point of meeting, it’s means it’s time to meet expectations. Some guys are pretty confident with themselves up until that point. Then, they overthink things as well. Some convince themselves to go thru with it, and some, rather than risk letting you down, they choose to not show up. Don’t get your feelings hurt. The next date will probably be successful. Remember, it’s always more pressure on the guy to fulfill your expectations.
