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I've found out that most are just playing internet games, I changed all my prefrences to " verified members only" the messages have slowed WAY down, but I still get the guys who are to far away to meet, and want to "chat" or " I travel to your area often" it's the same old BS, it says on my profile ONLY here for real meetings ! I doubt I'll ever meet anyone from here (so why do I keep coming back ?)
 
I have to say that we have had trouble as you have. My girl now has such a low opinion of Black men based on the ones she has met so far. And we are holding off for a while before trying again to find a regular Bull.
But its so disheartening and makes her feel terrible about herself. Losing all the confidence i initially saw growing in her. All because a handful of Black guys have shown her so very little to give us hope in this lifestyle.
Its a shame theres far less success stories than there are huge disappointments. And even the success stories. How many of those are real!? :-(
 
...... and I hate to say this, but guys please stop adding 2 or 3 inches to your dick length when advertising and talking about it. My girl already has a small dick to play with. She doesnt need another.
 
im honestly not sure why fakes would arrange a meeting...i dont follow that logic, do people really get off just being douche bags? i get how guys posing as fems or whites posing as blacks might want a few pics, but their so much free porn on the internet, the idea of having a meeting setting up and just not showing up....im simply not following the logic or what that does for them?? maybe im naive- new to this site
Sucks. No idea why. Sure its a huge fantasy but stay honest about status.
 
Agreed but my last flake fella was pretty convincing that he was a real person, we even spoke on the phone. It made me feel hurt but also it made me question if the psychology of actually meeting someone in a real life scenario is just too daunting for them.

We were just meeting for drinks, but it did mean he would need to walk in, say hello and acknowledge the situation. Maybe that was to scary? I had drinks still and an excellent time watching a football game with some nice white guys but I still felt pretty crummy.
feel bad for you Nichole.....no woman should be "stood up" like you say when you went to all the trouble of setting the meet up.
 
So first off I know there are some great people on this site but why so hard finding someone who actually makes plans then follows thru. 3 guys in 2 weeks and all 3 just silent when the meeting was supposed to take place. Just want to meet once and just see how things work out. FRUSTRATING!!!
Seriously,

What state
 
So first off I know there are some great people on this site but why so hard finding someone who actually makes plans then follows thru. 3 guys in 2 weeks and all 3 just silent when the meeting was supposed to take place. Just want to meet once and just see how things work out. FRUSTRATING!!!
COME TO ATlanta... I’m not hard to find.. lol
 
We have had same issue. Never had this before. People meet or we decide to set something up and BAAM, off the grid. hubby has starting calling them little pussies. LOL. He was like big dick does not make them men as they are scared little bitches. LOL. But we are still working it thru and seeing if we can find that diamond in the rough as it seems there is a lot of game players out there now who want to be studs but cannot be.
 
We have had same issue. Never had this before. People meet or we decide to set something up and BAAM, off the grid. hubby has starting calling them little pussies. LOL. He was like big dick does not make them men as they are scared little bitches. LOL. But we are still working it thru and seeing if we can find that diamond in the rough as it seems there is a lot of game players out there now who want to be studs but cannot be.
:bounce:
 
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