Forbidden to watch

I would be happy to submit to her bull if that were required. He hasn’t yet asked about it.
Perhaps you should suggest to her about submitting to her bull.

Maybe come up with an idea of earning the rewards of watching by doing some task or an idea of being naked tied up Maybe blindfolded at first and completing the task
 
Perhaps you should suggest to her about submitting to her bull.

Maybe come up with an idea of earning the rewards of watching by doing some task or an idea of being naked tied up Maybe blindfolded at first and completing the task
You need to ask him he already has her there's no need for him to ask you to submit
 
My wife refuses to let me watch her bull fucking her. She says that my presence would inhibit her. While I understand how she feels it is quite frustrating. I don’t feel like an actual cuckold even though everyone in the neighborhood knows. Is anyone else in that situation? What can I do?
I suggest that you arrange to have a conversation in a non sexual setting and first express your understanding of her view, then the angst/difficulty this situation causes you, and only then ask for possible solutions or a comfortable middle ground. Your post suggests she sees only one person; maybe finding a second who wouldn't mind you present.

I broke up with the couple that I enjoyed most in over 20 years in this lifestyle. We were exclusive over two years. He and I were both NCAA basketball fanatics (him Indiana, me UNC) and shooting pool. He worked nights and if I spent the night most times I got there before he left.

He wanted to watch once, and I had NO problem with it, but she was resolute it would never happen. He slowly increased letting me know....and he was an assistant chief of police in a suburban community. The more he asked the more I thought of being a Black man 'caught' in his wife's bed in the ultra conservative South....
 
Perhaps you should suggest to her about submitting to her bull.

Maybe come up with an idea of earning the rewards of watching by doing some task or an idea of being naked tied up Maybe blindfolded at first and completing the task
I must confess, I would enjoy the humiliation involved. It would make my cuckold experience more complete.
 
I suggest that you arrange to have a conversation in a non sexual setting and first express your understanding of her view, then the angst/difficulty this situation causes you, and only then ask for possible solutions or a comfortable middle ground. Your post suggests she sees only one person; maybe finding a second who wouldn't mind you present.

I broke up with the couple that I enjoyed most in over 20 years in this lifestyle. We were exclusive over two years. He and I were both NCAA basketball fanatics (him Indiana, me UNC) and shooting pool. He worked nights and if I spent the night most times I got there before he left.

He wanted to watch once, and I had NO problem with it, but she was resolute it would never happen. He slowly increased letting me know....and he was an assistant chief of police in a suburban community. The more he asked the more I thought of being a Black man 'caught' in his wife's bed in the ultra conservative South....
That’s a sensible approach. Many thanks.
 
I must confess, I would enjoy the humiliation involved. It would make my cuckold experience more complete.
Yeah see there's your chance, talk with her about being tied naked blindfolded and then made to jack off in front of her and bull while they are cuddling after sex. So they could laugh at you. Suggest maybe he spend the weekend. And maybe you wearing panties maybe a cage serving then both orally and domestically, cooking and cleaning and maybe cleaning them both. And possibly washing them in the shower.
 
Yeah see there's your chance, talk with her about being tied naked blindfolded and then made to jack off in front of her and bull while they are cuddling after sex. So they could laugh at you. Suggest maybe he spend the weekend. And maybe you wearing panties maybe a cage serving then both orally and domestically, cooking and cleaning and maybe cleaning them both. And possibly washing them in the shower.
I would be pleased to do all of that and more.
 
My wife refuses to let me watch her bull fucking her. She says that my presence would inhibit her. While I understand how she feels it is quite frustrating. I don’t feel like an actual cuckold even though everyone in the neighborhood knows. Is anyone else in that situation? What can I do?
The whole point to the lifestyle is for everyone involved to have their fantasies fulfilled. If it is your fantasy to be able to watch and enjoy at least every once in a while and you're not being allowed to ever do so then someone is being selfish and it's definitely time to reevaluate why you guys are in the lifestyle?
 
The whole point to the lifestyle is for everyone involved to have their fantasies fulfilled. If it is your fantasy to be able to watch and enjoy at least every once in a while and you're not being allowed to ever do so then someone is being selfish and it's definitely time to reevaluate why you guys are in the lifestyle?
Once I became impotent my wife wanted the option to fuck other men and I agreed. I wasn’t happy about being turned into a cuckold but I gradually accepted the idea and have learned to embrace it. I understand why my wife wouldn’t want me watching her but I still am frustrated that I can’t.
 
Thanks for the suggestion. The issue is heart medication that makes me soft.
If you are using beta blockers for BP then switch to another one. There are plenty of BP medications that don't cause ED one of them is Cialis although it is quit expensive and with all honesty I believe you have to divorce your wife.
Although cuckolding is very stupid fetish and risky for your social reputation; if you will do it, do it as part of YOUR sexual entertainment not at the expense of your ego, and pride.
How can you work and have a job and deal with other people if you can easily be used like that?
This woman doesn't love you nor respect you
 
If you are using beta blockers for BP then switch to another one. There are plenty of BP medications that don't cause ED one of them is Cialis although it is quit expensive and with all honesty I believe you have to divorce your wife.
Although cuckolding is very stupid fetish and risky for your social reputation; if you will do it, do it as part of YOUR sexual entertainment not at the expense of your ego, and pride.
How can you work and have a job and deal with other people if you can easily be used like that?
This woman doesn't love you nor respect you
Quite true. Appreciate your advice.
 
My wife refuses to let me watch her bull fucking her. She says that my presence would inhibit her. While I understand how she feels it is quite frustrating. I don’t feel like an actual cuckold even though everyone in the neighborhood knows. Is anyone else in that situation? What can I do?
FUCK THAT. that’s being a chump. Not a cuck.
 
Its about her pleasure not yours. If they want to play alone you just have to accept it. Maybe in time they will want to take it to another level. I played alone for a few years with 4-5 bulls but eventually I met a bull that liked making cuck watch and clean up.
No. It’s about the couples pleasure. Sharing this amazing thing together. No way. Never. Not for me.
 
To me if you”re “not allowed” to watch you’re just a chump supporting a slut or whore. Why bother ? And she and the men are laughing at you while you do so. That’s not cuckolding to me. I’ve been with five white gfs I was there every time. I or they wouldn’t have had it any other way.
 
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