I'm going to bust some bubbles right here and now, and this goes out to those hubbies out there who talk and talk and really don't know what it is this is about.
A question you all have to ask yourself: Who's in control?
Reason I ask this question is because of some of the demands and silly pressure a lot of hubbies tend to put out there when wanting someone to come seduce the wife. I had a hubby who wanted me to come fine-tune the wife's head, and he gave me this long list of stuff that I shouldn't do or get her to do for me … as well as stuff that he the hubby wouldn't ever want to do, one of which involves him cleaning her lover's cock. He said he wasn't a cuckold and don't intend to be one.
I need to clarify some of this to the population out there that's reading my blog, and I hope this gets to sink into your mind if you're reading this.
First of all: If you're a husband (don't matter if you're white or black or Asian), and you're happy and content with seeing or allowing your wife to have a lover(s)/boyfriend(s) or letting her roam free at a swinger's convention for other fellow husbands to come after her … YOU'RE A FUCKIN CUCKOLD! It don't matter how you wish to shape the language. It don't matter if you choose to clean her lover's cock after he's done fucking her or eat out her pussy when he's dumped his cum in her pussy, you are what you just heard me said: a cuckold.
But allow me to step back at bit, if in case my words sounded somewhat harsh or too direct. Being a cuckold isn't a bad thing as most would think it is, or how they assume the media or other people might make them feel about it. I've written about this subject time and time again and I guess I'm still going to till the day I eventually decide to fold up my tent and pack it up from here. Being a cuckold isn't a bad thing, rather it's a good thing. Whatever it is that gets you and your woman happy ought never be looked as something bad or worse. Imagine back as kids when you and the first girl you ever played with went around the back of the barn to play 'Doctor and Nurse'. That's the early stage of learning what sex is about. It involved two people sharing a secret, a common bond that parents tend to overlook. The analogy may not apply here, but the phase 'sharing secrets' does. Cuckoldry is still one of the world's best kept secret, right next to how the Egyptians built the Pyramids. It's a fulfillment that involves couples sharing their openness of love and unabashed sex with each other and letting all inhibitions run free and wild. How you choose to define it depends on you and the wife, but the majority of that decision rests on the wife … NOT on you, white boi.
Second: IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU. This part I want it to really, really sink in: being a cuckold, or wanting to be involved in a cuckold lifestyle isn't about you hubbies out there. Hell no. Don't even think you're seated in the driver's seat. From the moment you got your wife/GF involved into this, you relinquish all rights and holdings to how or who gets to drive. That matter now falls on the wife's lap. She gets to decide where she wants the both of you to drive to: whom she wants to fuck, where she wants to fuck, however she wants to get fucked, and how she gets herself ready to want to get fucked.