Finding respectful, reliable BBC

Does anyone else have issues finding respectful, reliable BBC to be with? In our experience they say they will show up but don't, they act like they want to hook up then all of the sudden ghost you. Or you find a guy who seems interested only to find out he is an egotistical jerk who is totally disrespectful. How do we actually find real men with BBC that really want to fuck and actually show up?
 
Does anyone else have issues finding respectful, reliable BBC to be with? In our experience they say they will show up but don't, they act like they want to hook up then all of the sudden ghost you. Or you find a guy who seems interested only to find out he is an egotistical jerk who is totally disrespectful. How do we actually find real men with BBC that really want to fuck and actually show up?
I'm in SC and seven and change fat. Hmu
 
Does anyone else have issues finding respectful, reliable BBC to be with? In our experience they say they will show up but don't, they act like they want to hook up then all of the sudden ghost you. Or you find a guy who seems interested only to find out he is an egotistical jerk who is totally disrespectful. How do we actually find real men with BBC that really want to fuck and actually show up?

Invite people out to a public place (bar/cafe) to talk first before getting physical. If they’re not willing to develop some type of casual friendship with the couple before hand it’s a red flag they have a bad personality.

As far as ghosting…no one can detect that before it happens. It’s just something we all have to deal with.

Good luck.
 
Invite people out to a public place (bar/cafe) to talk first before getting physical. If they’re not willing to develop some type of casual friendship with the couple before hand it’s a red flag they have a bad personality.

As far as ghosting…no one can detect that before it happens. It’s just something we all have to deal with.

Good luck.
Been there plenty of times. The ghosting really sucks.
 
Does anyone else have issues finding respectful, reliable BBC to be with? In our experience they say they will show up but don't, they act like they want to hook up then all of the sudden ghost you. Or you find a guy who seems interested only to find out he is an egotistical jerk who is totally disrespectful. How do we actually find real men with BBC that really want to fuck and actually show up?
In Miami
 
Location is big with this fetish! Lots of people aren't into the same dynamic after a little conversation and some guys just might not be attracted to the wife. As for the ones who approach first and ghost, they're more than likely not single or have too many options! That's the only logical reason I see behind ghosting
 
OMG yes. You would think the chance to have a regular affair with a beautiful woman they would be all about her. But yeah, intial meets, maybe 1 out of 10 actually meets. Then they say how much they like you and you in bed, then you don't hear from them for weeks.

We have found one super reliable third. Three others are really hit and miss.

They will say they want to hook up, then you never hear back to confirm.

Come on guys really?

There is no way you go days without looking at your phone. It's really disrespectful to the lady.
 
Invite people out to a public place (bar/cafe) to talk first before getting physical. If they’re not willing to develop some type of casual friendship with the couple before hand it’s a red flag they have a bad personality.

As far as ghosting…no one can detect that before it happens. It’s just something we all have to deal with.

Good luck.
When we are looking we start in a swinger club just talking to possibles. Then invite them to a nude beach. If they make it there about 80 % of the work is done. Next up is a visit to the clinic for tests. By this point we have a good idea of their interests. Like indoors, outdoors, in a car, up a tree. Where do they want to play.
 
Does anyone else have issues finding respectful, reliable BBC to be with? In our experience they say they will show up but don't, they act like they want to hook up then all of the sudden ghost you. Or you find a guy who seems interested only to find out he is an egotistical jerk who is totally disrespectful. How do we actually find real men with BBC that really want to fuck and actually show up?
I'm that guy that will show up! You just got to weed out the jerks! Ive found some people who do the same when it comes time to meet they stsnd you up and promise that they will show and stand you up 4 times then hook up with someone else and still waste your time! I understand totally!
 
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