Frustration with the nearly impossible task of finding a QoS

[CuckToBeInWV]

I've been interested in this for a long time. I had a girlfriend, then she was a long distance girlfriend, who loved the idea of getting black cock. That relationship ended, being long distance, the communication was too difficult.

So, I'm single, and looking around, I'd love to find a dominant female, specifically one that loves black cock. It seems nearly impossible. There are a few FinDoms out there, they really only want my money, that's not my thing.

Outside of masturbation fantasy, how hard (or easy) has it been for any of the other guys to actually find a woman like this? Any clues or leads where the best place to look would be?

 

[jj3some]

NEED TO INVEST TIME I A ltr TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.

 

[CuckToBeInWV]

NEED TO INVEST TIME I A ltr TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.

As in, get into a vanilla relationship, and bring it up later? I worry about that, I feel like it's best to be honest up front with a partner about kinks and expectations.

I have made some vanilla dating connections, and didn't even mention black bulls or QoS, just mentioned a female led relationship, and that has scared off most the local women.