i've been introducing toys into our bedroom fun and it has been going great. Started with a realistic rabbit but she found the vibrations too intense. I took that as an opportunity to try some dildos with her and began to buy a few, a couple of smaller ones and one of which was a Black 8" (7" insertable) x 1.9" SoftColours dildo, that is, visually, intimidating for beginners. It looks huge next to the other ones, and i would love to see her take it in her beautiful pussy. She had an amazing orgasm with one of the smaller dildos but mentioned that she thought it was big, so i didnt feel that was the right moment to bring out the big Black dildo so i kept it in bag next to the bed. Well, she looked inside the bag when i left the room and when i got back she said 'WTF throw that out, it's way too big for me!' I managed to convince her for us to keep it, that it was a soft silicone, and not that big... I hope i didnt blow it, as i would love to have her cum on a BBC dildo... I'll continue with the smaller ones for now and try to convince her later..