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Fetishizing black people?
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But I thought the main question was direct towards blk men ..the fact that some of yall took the liberty to speak up and disrespect us show you why black men are not giving a fuck about your fantasies.There are black snowflakes too.
And just like that, it’s snowing.
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Lol why because you got offended by the truth ..look regardless of what you call me ..I have my own mind and opinions. If speaking them make me a snowflake that's cool but I'm not the one being a followers nor do I have to disrespect people to make me point
Thanks for showing up. You've made it so much easier to make my point.
Right ...that whole I'm mad because black man speak up and have different opinions then mines and they are sensitive because they don't want to play with me makes the point itself .but hey I'm about to buy a flash light and call it my "white girl" seeing that it's popular to call blk dildos bbc
I don’t know about “ throwing us away” because I personally prefer a long term / friendship. At times it goes that way but at times it’s the single men that have moved on. With that said, there is absolutely no one here on this site or any other site that can truthfully say “ I’m jumping into their DM” because I don’t, it’s the other way around. So I would respectfully disagree on who is throwing who away. Although I’m sure the door swings both ways. All I can say is that if the LS isn’t befitting to anyone then maybe that person should rethink it.Voluntary is correct and the comment was stating that we as blk men need to wake up and realize alot of this stuff you all like because of porn is actually toxic and stems from slavery and racism. We as blk men desire a sexual partner we can rely on when WE are horny same as you. This LS is solely centered around YOU getting what you want out of us when you want it and then throwing us away. Not even in the slightest!!!
Me personally, I don't interact with yt couples that are opposed to blk men or yt women that only want blk men over after the sun goes downBrooke Blaze and Mr. Blaze are a prime example of a yt couple that genuinely LIKE BLACK MEN! Most of you on here are just for play play anyway
Dontbullyme
Male
Just chiming in.
How do you explain the existance of cuckoldry and fetishism of black men in european countries where all black men that live here are all ancostors of free men. I feel like its something else going on with the cuckoldry fetish, could it be as simple looking different? I dont have the answer, I think this delves very deeply into human psychye but I do believe that equating "having sex with black man for sex -> because of slavary" is shallow.
What position are you starting with? That it's because of slavery? Who insinuated that?
Or, are you stating that in Europe, black people are not looked down on? Or that racism does not exist in Europe? Or, racism on extends from slavery?
All wrong. So please, if you're seeking an answer, ask a real question.
Is a preference a fetish? I discovered I have a preference for men of color and it is like about art for me. I ave never been about telling wat people to like just because I like it. Everyone as their own story. I have had lovers who met me through my sites and we got very close, but they couldn't handle the fact that they enjoyed my passion for them, but when I might be talking to another gentleman at dinner or a party, they couldn't handle it. It is like people who prefer blondes or Jewish women or even black women.
There is a difference between a preference, and a fetish. That's the point of this.
ps-I've loved your content for years. One of the first features with DFWKnight.
Dontbullyme
Male
Please read what i quoted, you are making the point that slaves where seen as breeding/fucking machines in times of slavery and its parallel to the cuckold fetish, trying to handwave my point as nonsense is super badfaith.
But hey maybe you are right, maybe its all because of racism. End of disussion I guess.....
In my experience yes the lifestyle, BNWO, cuckold etc are all founded in somewhat fetishistic and inaccurate perspective of race and of black people.
For example interracial lifestyle is far less common in Europe than it is in the United States because they just don’t have the same obsession with race that Americans do and Europeans are routinely horrified when they find out how many Americans either despise black people just for their skin color or have a weird sexual obsession with them, because both of those things are way less common in Europe, and both are founded on the same idea of thinking race is super important and blacks on some level are fundamentally different from white people or are a threat to them.
For example interracial lifestyle is far less common in Europe than it is in the United States because they just don’t have the same obsession with race that Americans do and Europeans are routinely horrified when they find out how many Americans either despise black people just for their skin color or have a weird sexual obsession with them, because both of those things are way less common in Europe, and both are founded on the same idea of thinking race is super important and blacks on some level are fundamentally different from white people or are a threat to them.
Interracial lifestyle is far less common in Europe than in America and to the extent it does exist it was imported by Americans and was not created by Europeans themselves (mostly)
VarietyChill
Male
Ok so it sounds like dude’s main gripe here is wanting to maintain a relationship with these woman outside of sex, which is already completely possible.
I need to point out here that slave owners and slaves were not “having sex”, what you are describing is literal *******. They RAPED their slaves. BIG DIFFERENCE. Consenting adults agreeing to have sex & find stimuli in each of their characteristics does not dehumanize the other, there are PLENTY of Queen of Spades/woman that love black men beyond their dicks. BBC is a big part of it, but I guarantee you it’s not all of it. Have you seen the QoS on Twitter? They host events with black men & fellow QoS all the time, they meet up to have large parties with eachother, go clubbing & dancing, have giant vacations with these groups etc. I’ve seen QoS that maintain a relationships with their bulls etc. Hell, if the guy that’s complaining in the sub is looking to go romantic with one of the woman, I implore you to look into the BNWO QoS woman like Lady Anaconda’s group, those woman literally want to marry their Bulls, they don’t have white husbands or hubbys & they want to have Black babies, they talk about how much they love black men. They go above & beyond.They share black issues & donate to the black community on their social media all the time, are those wives dehumanizing us? Sex is not all romantic all the time, sometimes it’s just sex, & because of that sometimes it won’t leave the bedroom. And that’s ok. If you get into a one night stand at the bar, were you dehumanized & fetishized just now? If you and a woman have casual sex but it not evolves into a relationship, does that automatically call for fetishization and dehumanization? No, sex can be a lot of things, from a fun activity to romantic, & every woman that participates in this lifestyle does it differently from the rest. Everything I listed above are all sorts of things QOS woman participate in, some do one night stands with Black men, some do multiple meet ups with the same Black men, some maintain a genuine relationship with Black men they have sex, & some make the black man they have sex with into exclusive partners to live & have babies with.
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Dontbullyme
Male
Maybe, then I would be more sympathetic with the point that it does stem from slavery (or holds very similar tought) but I dont beleive you, I dont believe there is a way of knowing this answer and we are both talking against eachother based on emotion, making a factual statement like that is jumping the gun a little bit.
Do I believe that cuckoldry in its current state is dehumanizing black men? Yes? But I also believe it dehumanize the white man and women equally as much. Having the white man kneel infront of the "bull" is not honorable or prideful, its humiliating.
regarding the relationship stuff i probably sucks, men need more then just sex to stay alive and be happy but this fetish doesnt give one love, warm emotions or long term stable relationships. It mainly focuses on sex.
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Your comprehension is *******. Pay attention an read the following slowly, outloud, twice.
The subject was fetishizing.
People continued to make an issue that it can't be dehumanizing because the black men are getting sex.
So, I used an extreme but accurate example of how the desire to have sex with a different race isn't the same as respecting them, or seeing them as normal as you see people of your own race, and not a vessel for orgasms.
It's a pretty simple to grasp, unless you're passive aggressively looking to start some s/hit. I'm down for that too.
Dontbullyme
Male
I understand your point but I dont agree.
Let me give an example, everyone probably has a memory they cringe at, maybe its falling down the stairs one time, or maybe its stuttering during your speech.
I feel like being a cuck is a permanent mind changer and its not just a game. The average cuck probably has alot of weight over their shoulder from their "plays".
To change my mind on this I guess I would need the statements of cucks saying the opposite but its difficult finding them not being complete simps over black people so their words can only mean so much.
