Fetishizing black people?

[marcus3219]

Fetishize me goddamit! I love it

It's hard not to read these posts with my cock in my hand. this is so hot. I'm so guilty of fetishizing alpha black men , white wives, cuckolding, bbc, IR and the like

 

[MagicMikeATX]

I avoid those men like the plague. I mean, if you’re going onto an interracial fetish site and complaining about being objectified then you’ve got a major screw loose. Any man that gets to have sex with another man’s wife should be happy that he has the opportunity to receive the main reward with none of the effort required to obtain it otherwise. Women are objectified all day every day and yet we learn to deal with that. And that’s in everyday life, not just on a sexual fetish site! These guys need to grow up and learn that sex for the sake of pleasure will never be without objectification, racial or otherwise.

[Any man that gets to have sex with another man’s wife should be happy that he has the opportunity to receive the main reward with none of the effort required to obtain it otherwise]

 

[ManAboutTown]

On contrary sir! I’m sure there may be a lot of folks like that, which is fucked up IMO!
How tf do people do this life without developing some kind of relationship?
See this is why I ain’t jumped up on no dick yet! It’s because I want to know as much as I’m supposed to know about the person I chose and make sure I’m ready and feel comfortable and confident about myself before I could even attempt it. People need human connection. It doesn’t need to be a lot and they don’t need to know all about personal lives, but if you’re gonna hook up I think you should atleast treat them as a human being and not a toy. I’d rather a friendship over a one nighter any day boo.
But you keep doing you and remember you are not just a “piece of meat” to everyone.
You go on ahead and tell them bitches “Listen up Francine! There is a man attached to this delicious looking BBC you’re currently sucking on and he has feelings.” HaHa and then cum all over that bitches face after.

Wooow! You literally said a mouth full right there! No one will want to profess it, but feelings that are suppressed only lead to emotions and distress!

 

[royray]

We stumbled across a profile of a black gentleman on another platform and his profile said the following;

"I am no longer interested in participating in anything related to queen of spades, hotwives, cuckolding, bulls, and anything fetishizing Black people, so please keep that in mind before messaging me. If I see anything regarding BBC or associated terms in your profile, I will not respond."

Then we saw other profiles making similar statements.

How do you as a black man feel about this? Please forgive our ignorance, we are just trying to learn how to approach others without offending anyone. We are just trying to have fun and nurture our kinks.

First off...it's a fetish. And like any other fetish, it only works for people who are into it. Secondly, the way people approach the fetish can differ. Some people really get into role play, humiliation, etc. Other people are turned on by interracial sex, but not by all the extra stuff (e.g., pretend you are a gangster, or using the n-word while you are getting smashed). They just like the idea of fucking women of other "races". Hell, some don't care about race and just like the idea of fucking other people's wives. To each his own...there are no right and wrong answers when it comes to exploring your sexuality (assuming your exploration involves consenting adults).

Me personally...I am not into all the extras.

 

[marcus3219]

First off...it's a fetish. And like any other fetish, it only works for people who are into it. Secondly, the way people approach the fetish can differ. Some people really get into role play, humiliation, etc. Other people are turned on by interracial sex, but not by all the extra stuff (e.g., pretend you are a gangster, or using the n-word while you are getting smashed). They just like the idea of fucking women of other "races". Hell, some don't care about race and just like the idea of fucking other people's wives. To each his own...there are no right and wrong answers when it comes to exploring your sexuality (assuming your exploration involves consenting adults).

Me personally...I am not into all the extras.

What do you mean by extras if you don't mind me asking?

 

[royray]

What do you mean by extras if you don't mind me asking?

I can describe what is extra for me (which may not be extra for others).

As someone has already mentioned, I don't play the role of gangster, slave, etc., and I don't take kindly to being called the N-word. In other words, if you are "physically" attracted to Black men (though we come in many colors and physiques, some of which you may not like), I'm good. If you are attracted to a particular idea of what a Black man is or how they should act...I may not be able to/be willing to provide you with that extra. That said, it is a big and diverse world, so there are certainly Black men that can provide you with what you are looking for. After all, gangsters and slaves do exist. Just by way of example...some days I have a hankering for Latina women. It just is what it is and depends on the day. Rarely does that desire to fuck a Latina come with a requirement that she dress like a maid and talk with an accent. The maid outfit and the accent would be extras...and I would understand if she was not into those extras.

 

[marcus3219]

I can describe what is extra for me (which may not be extra for others).

As someone has already mentioned, I don't play the role of gangster, slave, etc., and I don't take kindly to being called the N-word. In other words, if you are "physically" attracted to Black men (though we come in many colors and physiques, some of which you may not like), I'm good. If you are attracted to a particular idea of what a Black man is or how they should act...I may not be able to/be willing to provide you with that extra. That said, it is a big and diverse world, so there are certainly Black men that can provide you with what you are looking for. After all, gangsters and slaves do exist. Just by way of example...some days I have a hankering for Latina women. It just is what it is and depends on the day. Rarely does that desire to fuck a Latina come with a requirement that she dress like a maid and talk with an accent. The maid outfit and the accent would be extras...and I would understand if she was not into those extras.

Thank you for that clarification

 

[MichelleCakes]

I'm sorry but it is a fetish for me. The interracial component is super hot to me and my husband.

Of course, I would not want to offend anyone who is looking for a more meaningful relationship, nor would I judge him. However, Bulls are for me a large and thick adult play toy and I always hope my face, ass, titties and pussy can be a sexy play thing for them.

However, once the sweat and lust washes off I want to go back to the real world and not be concerned about whether I'm solely the object of sexual desire to some demographic of men or whether they know who I AM. Who cares? It's adult fun.

 

[bussin]

his pole is broke. or either white boy small

 

[King Blue]

He’s entitled to that position. Objectification is a sensitive pill to swallow for any morally conscious being. On the other hand sexually conscious beings are ‘turned on’ by all kinds of stimuli. And when that stimuli leads to any value of satisfaction we become energized and interested in more of it. Brunettes, big tits, petite, Asian, white. Latin, etc. We’re all entitled to preferences.

I surmise that he is rightfully averse to the historical sexual objectification of the Black Man and that correlation to this segment of sexual societies. If that’s his dig, I totally understand where he’s coming from (no pun).

I appreciate you fielding out other opinions, but I thought it’d be fair to consider more expansive context.

Don’t trip tho - y’all white queens will get this black dick without hesitation…if you’re my type.

well said☺☺

 

[bbclovinwife]

Watching too much BLACKED porn.

That’s the beauty of it the incredible taboo and the taste of a real beautiful bbc is all I could ever ask for I told my wife I just want to be her in god honesty her gay best friend I’m infatuated with cock and can’t get rid of this feeling

 

[cuckbyeverygf]

We stumbled across a profile of a black gentleman on another platform and his profile said the following;

"I am no longer interested in participating in anything related to queen of spades, hotwives, cuckolding, bulls, and anything fetishizing Black people, so please keep that in mind before messaging me. If I see anything regarding BBC or associated terms in your profile, I will not respond."

Then we saw other profiles making similar statements.

How do you as a black man feel about this? Please forgive our ignorance, we are just trying to learn how to approach others without offending anyone. We are just trying to have fun and nurture our kinks.

No, we're not fetish guys in ther

We stumbled across a profile of a black gentleman on another platform and his profile said the following;

"I am no longer interested in participating in anything related to queen of spades, hotwives, cuckolding, bulls, and anything fetishizing Black people, so please keep that in mind before messaging me. If I see anything regarding BBC or associated terms in your profile, I will not respond."

Then we saw other profiles making similar statements.

How do you as a black man feel about this? Please forgive our ignorance, we are just trying to learn how to approach others without offending anyone. We are just trying to have fun and nurture our kinks.

No, we're, they're taking a white woman. And they're like, that's just so f****** big.

We stumbled across a profile of a black gentleman on another platform and his profile said the following;

"I am no longer interested in participating in anything related to queen of spades, hotwives, cuckolding, bulls, and anything fetishizing Black people, so please keep that in mind before messaging me. If I see anything regarding BBC or associated terms in your profile, I will not respond."

Then we saw other profiles making similar statements.

How do you as a black man feel about this? Please forgive our ignorance, we are just trying to learn how to approach others without offending anyone. We are just trying to have fun and nurture our kinks.

It's hard not to read these posts with my cock in my hand. this is so hot. I'm so guilty of fetishizing alpha black men , white wives, cuckolding, bbc, IR and the like

White women are just learning at cock size that big is t?+!°°`.
That a mandingo's penis is needed, that little penis doesn't do nothing is if she has a good, then when they asked that they realized, I was like, well doesn't do what you're supposed to tal

 

[hunglikebull88]

We stumbled across a profile of a black gentleman on another platform and his profile said the following;

"I am no longer interested in participating in anything related to queen of spades, hotwives, cuckolding, bulls, and anything fetishizing Black people, so please keep that in mind before messaging me. If I see anything regarding BBC or associated terms in your profile, I will not respond."

Then we saw other profiles making similar statements.

How do you as a black man feel about this? Please forgive our ignorance, we are just trying to learn how to approach others without offending anyone. We are just trying to have fun and nurture our kinks.

Fuck him lol I’ll fuck your wife for you

 

[hunglikebull88]

Spoken like a true bought and paid for obedient slave.

Shut yo stupid ass up you acting like you gotta fuck her if you not into whites then that’s not what what your into white bitches have good pussy and head shut yo lame ass up don’t deal with them but me ima fuck the ******* out of em each trip

 

[Lhomme]

I have to point out one big factor in this post...the author said that this was on his profile on a different site which was probably not an IR site like this one. I also understand where he was coming from...this place is for interracial...there are so many components that fall under the category. Women you know firsthand what it's like on this site. Some women want to be treated like meat and used...others are interested in building a strong rapport built on respect and desire...there is no way to know who is going to message you and how they will approach. What the white men in this thread don't feel is the feeling of being seen as parts of a whole....women get the same thing. there are more posts looking to see private parts and the rest of the person is often left out until a connection is made. (and I'm here knowingly and I'm down for it.) But we can't jump on someone, anyone who no longer wants to be seen as only an idea for someone else's pleasure....I really do think it should be a two way street.

For the ones who only know to refer to us as Bucks, some men like that, I personally know I am more than my dick...so myself and those people typically don't connect and we all move forward...Everyone has the right to be their honest and true selves and that can change as we all change...

 

[Lhomme]

And to the kings in this post....we are all here for some reason and there is enough space for us to pursue what we want to our heart's desire...What Chris Rock momma say?... Don't fight in front of white people

 

[Kull711]

Mannn, I know I’ve posted my response on this thread but hot damn, I’ve never had this much fun reading crazy & intelligent responses from everyone who’ve posted . Some were ignorant, insightful and thought provoking when it comes to this thread and I have no shade against anyone who reads this & agrees & disagrees to what I’m about share right now.



I can understand how the real black men are coming from when it comes to being fetishized but also I can understand if certain real black men are ok with that also. I mean shoot, I love me some healthy built women who want to slobber on my chocolate stick and get the frosted tip in the end and I can ride her pussy like space mountain or spank her ass like a drum at a drum circle but at the same time, most of us want a genuine connection with a healthy woman or with a couple with no b.s connected to it and be appreciated and respected as a man.


When it comes to the real couples & women on here who love to live this lifestyle on a regular basis and know exactly what they want, my hat goes to you. It’ll be very hypocritical of me to talk mess about women who crave black dick and I want to connect with them, look at their content and have a kinky time with them.



I hope that everyone is doing well and living their best life, having fun in this lifestyle and connecting with each other on a genuine level. I know that some of you may think I’m a hippie or if I’m weird, but I’m ok with that and I value myself as a weird hippie who loves healthy built women with a healthy & sexy personality. Shoot I may get some flack from some internet tough guys out there but I’ll leave that to the mods and I’ll just have my popcorn and my mushroom elixir beverage, learning about how I can be a healthy lover and keep on hooking up with any beautiful women that love to this this lifestyle .

 

[Kull711]

I don't mind being fetishized, just don't dehumanize me

i feel the same way

 

[Kull711]

Half you people can’t even read. The OP clearly said it was a profile on another site. Not b2w. He wasn’t on an IR site saying he doesn’t want to be fetishized. He completely has that right and I understand where he’s coming from. The same way that if a little person said they didn’t want to be fetishized and wanted to cultivate real relationships, not just people that want to fuck a little person, I would understand that as well. It’s really not that hard if you take a step back from your own world for even a minute and show some empathy to another human being.

 

[Kull711]

Some bitch from Fetlife told me my penis is small for a black man. I'm packing at least 8 inches. Honestly the BBC stereotype is getting out of hand. I'm just thinking about marrying my girl and leaving this lifestyle forever.

i'm sorry that happened to you and i had a similar experience from a couple recently also.