Yes. You assume everyone approaches fucking with the same mindset that you have, it's for your own gratification. "He's black, got a big dick, I want to fuck him and he should be grateful and enjoy!"- appears to be your mindset.
You make
@KingDomino point, while trying to be witty.
Back to the topic, you yourself are actually a good example.
In the past you've stated how
you're often not compatible with your playmates on a personal/social level and "very" few of them become actual friends with you and your husband outside of sexual play sessions because of that (because they are not on your social/personal level). Those that don't find a problem with that statement or view, will continue to make great content with you, those of us who see that comment for what it is, will not.
You can have a preference, and still not fetishize black men. However, you're one who does festishize and dehumanize.
Why, or how you can lay with someone you don't find compatible on a social level is beyond me. And, why they would lay with you, after knowing that, is the very definition of a tap dancing Simp.