Fetishizing black people?
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Sad part is 90% of the blk dudes on here have zero self respect to begin with. That's why they get away with this crap!!! Brothas gotta raise their standards. If we have the most desirable dick on the planet why are we giving it to women that WANT to be trash buckets....but only in secret
Yeah, some try to sound WOKE and call it fetichism. People can call it whatever tf they want IMO it’s a voluntary form of sexual exploitation. Blk man exploits white women for them sugar walls, white women exploit black men for that “Dick” and husband exploits both for his fantasies. So it’s a 3 way win as far as I’m concerned. Either way , as long as we are all consenting adults who tf really cares. Either participate or get tf out of the LS..Just my opinions…
Voluntary is correct and the comment was stating that we as blk men need to wake up and realize alot of this stuff you all like because of porn is actually toxic and stems from slavery and racism. We as blk men desire a sexual partner we can rely on when WE are horny same as you. This LS is solely centered around YOU getting what you want out of us when you want it and then throwing us away. Not even in the slightest!!!
Me personally, I don't interact with yt couples that are opposed to blk men or yt women that only want blk men over after the sun goes down
Brooke Blaze and Mr. Blaze are a prime example of a yt couple that genuinely LIKE BLACK MEN! Most of you on here are just for play play anywayHonestly, the whole BBC thing is racist for sure. The white dudes that enslaved us created a myth that all black guys have big dicks and are hence hyper virile and beast-like. This was their reason for keeping their women away from us. Too bad segregation ended and this ******* backfired on them. 
Also what's with white men calling US a BBC. Like its some ******* they purchased from amazon. I got a BBC but I ain't one.
Also what's with white men calling US a BBC. Like its some ******* they purchased from amazon. I got a BBC but I ain't one.
The people he was dealing with took the physical pleasure out of the equation for him. Started treating him like an *******. He’s a man. A powerful man. Couples treated him as a circus *******
It’s a lifestyle people choose. People can have whatever opinions they want. We don’t mix religion or politics in our lifestyle and avoid those that do. wanna make a political statement- go Ahead but we are out and whether we agree with you or not but we cut bait immediately. We do this for recreation. No additional drama or stress accepted.
I'm not in the lifestyle at all. I have no real world experience to base my opinion on. All I know about the lifestyle is what I am exposed to on this site. That being said I have extensive experience with having sex with women. Some I liked, some I loved, some I hated...and fucked them as such. The one thing that ties them together is all were my choice.
I thought for a moment what it would be like to be a so-called "Bull". I asked myself would I have sex with a woman who in word and deed looked down on me ?
Thought and treated me as less than?
Was a white supremacist overtly or covertly?
The answer was a resounding NO.
My opinion is that you shouldn't do anything that makes you uncomfortable.
That bar is specific to every individual.
I also think that anybody who is active in the lifestyle. Probably should understand that anything beyond a pure voluntary fetishized sexual dynamic is unlikely... Although not impossible.
I'm really good at compartmentalizing...
"This is this and that is that"
I'm sure I would be able to keep the lines of sex and romance unblurred. I think anybody in the lifestyle who is looking for the latter is barking up the wrong tree.
I liken a "Bull" almost like a gigolo/p.rostitute/ fucker for fee. The payoff may not be in coinage... However evidently white pussy has its own unique value.
It's a tough job but somebody's got to do it...right?
What's really important is that you do it on your own terms.
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Dating site? No one is talking romance. This is about sex and respect. Period.
You stating your partners know the assignment and YOUR game, is all that's needed. There's no issue with that.
Fetishization is used here in a sense that you will fuck them, but beyond that, you really don't have any use, respect or understanding for black men. I can show you other threads where plenty of racist s/hit is said about us by so called QOS when it comes to work, living conditions, families and culture. Again, dozens of topics right here on this site that one would think is beyond that. So, you'll have to excuse some of us if there is a demand for basic respect.
Your choice is that. Your choice, as it is ours to only fuck women who we have some kind of compatibility with or we clique with.
Don't tell me I'm 'wasting my breath' talking to black men about anything. You're not able but correct that many will ignore this to get a piece, and if you're good with it - y'all can have at it.
The first statement is fair and true to the rules you set for yourself.
Don't want to be friends with everyone in a bar, and don't want to fuck every white woman (women regardless of race).
I used your own words to give an example of fetishizing.
Dehumanizing is not always extreme, sometimes it's slight, like when you state most of your black partners are not compatible to you enough to socialize with - I saw that as damn, you can't have a ******* and conversation with them without them being naked? You'd fuck a ignorant thug, and the director of predictive analytics with the same gusto?
I don't assert that I'm speaking for anyone but myself.
We do have the freedom of speech (somewhat), but that also means other have the freedom to criticize that speech.
Who the hell is talking about romance here???But sex doesn’t have to be romantic; you just seem to think it does and that is more simp to me than anything.You can choose to place romantic importance on sex and I’ll keep having sex for fun.
Your afraid that if you actually fuck someone who is respectable and compatible, that there will be Romance?
Nope. The Simps are the ones who fuck women who don't respect them, or got no use for black folks beyond the bedroom (not talking about you here).
You keep doing you.
Vilifying other? More fun? Yeah, OK. If your feeling like a villain from what I wrote, then a self check may be in order.Some of us are here to have a good time. It may do some good to loosen up and spend time enjoying others rather than looking for reasons to vilify those that are just having more fun.
You should keep having fun, but if you give your opinion on an open forum, you should expect others to do the same. Remember that whole thing you just wrote about living in a free society with differences of thought and opinion?
What's forbidden about being with a man of color!?
It's fucking racist is what it is!!! I been on LS sites since I was 21. Met an older woman 53 and her husband that were legit interested in having a black male be their Dom. That was my first experience in this world. Where do these couples get off wanting to Top from the Bottom!? No kissing, they can take video but we can't, or she wants black guys to line up like she's that damn irresistible
Personally we believe that all is fine. But, unfortunately, where we live there is very conservative society. Check our Media to see we are very open
This is Eastern European, broThat's too bad. No black men for the women there
I won't be visiting
IRisyum
Male
They wont miss u lol
This is not meant as an attack or an insult. From my perspective it is the privilege of obliviousness. Your naivety may very well be innocent... There are those who act like they don't know but they know...All too well.
If you're so inclined it might be illuminating for you to educate yourself. Expose yourself to information and experiences outside of your norm...
It may help you understand what Black men are talking about.
Hopefully you will become part of the solution and not part of the problem...
Of course the first step is awareness.
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And I won't miss them
IRisyum
Male
good then no one will miss anyone problem solvedAnd I won't miss them
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