Fantasy - or reality?
- Thread starter Portia
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I hope it will become reality for me one day.
White Satin
Male
I'm fully committed to it because it's simply the normal state of how human females are wired biologically. The reality is that loyalty/monogamy is a male only value and something no woman can ever achieve, so if a male desires a female partner then that is something he has to accept. Because females have this built in dual mating strategy there is no other way to be involved on a long term relationship basis unless the male accepts that she will never be capable of fidelity so the easiest thing to do is work with biology and not waste time trying to change millions of years of evolution.
Why would monogamy be a 'male only value'? From the perspective of biology wouldn't a man have more motive to spread his seed with multiple partners? I'm sure this is what most evo-psych theorists would argue...
White Satin
Male
Monogamy, or the one man and one woman policy, was developed over centuries because it was the ONLY way to create a stable society which was a necessity if you had any plans of surviving the ******* winters in European nations. That social structure is why European countries and only European countries are the global superpowers they are. Prior to all the "refugees welcome" idiocy, those kingdoms had to ensure paternity if they had any hope of building strategic alliances, and because females lack the ability to think long term or sacrifice for their tribe in any way their mating stategy made that impossible.
Females seek the "strongest male" for breeding, and that really gets in the way of the tribes/kingdoms orders to marry john the scribe so he will keep printing orders for the army so that kingdom doesn't get ransacked by the horde. Stacy doesn't give a dam if the kingdom is overrun, she just wants to get knocked up by the "strongest male" even if he is the one torching her village.
John the scribe will remain loyal to the king because he isn't driven by mating with the "strongest male" he just want to mate with an availble female, but Stacy could care less who the king is so long as her primal desire for breeding is met.
The King, however can pick Stacy and she will be thrilled to serve as one of his whores because guess what? The king qualifies as the "strongest male" and it makes no difference to Stacy if the King is fucking a dozen other women also, because Stacy still gets to be with the "strongest male" even if she is just a piece of ass on the side. So our scribe John has a choice, he can accept that Stacy isn't capable of loyalty and accept it OR he can go his own way and not waste his time trying to convince Stacy to change or control here biological drives.
Europeans came up with a way to keep everyone relatively happy by instituting marriage or the one man one woman policy known as monogamy. Men didn't get to have harems anymore, women had to stick with one guy, and that allowed you to sit in Starbucks and look at that hand held wonder we call cell phones because our man John the scribe wasn't left out and kept printing parchments for the king and his army.
Guess what happens when you get rid of the scribes?
Stacy gets raped, beaten, and then killed when she isn't young and hot anymore, the village is burned to the ground, and The king's treasures which kept every one fed are looted.
That's also known as GAME OVER for everyone.
It started as a fantasy with me sharing it with my wife, always whenever we were making out. Then one day, or should
I say, one night, while we were on a combined vacation/convention trip, Pam turned that fantasy into reality! We unexpectidily met up with an old university friend and roommate of mine whom I hadn't been in touch with for over seven years. He's black and to him went the pleasure of giving Pam her first ever strange cock, albeit a black cock! Neither she or I ever considered my being a cuckold, the word just wasn't in our vocabulary. Anyway, we've posted about that event elsewhere on this site if you care to know the nitty gritty details. Enjoy!!
I say, one night, while we were on a combined vacation/convention trip, Pam turned that fantasy into reality! We unexpectidily met up with an old university friend and roommate of mine whom I hadn't been in touch with for over seven years. He's black and to him went the pleasure of giving Pam her first ever strange cock, albeit a black cock! Neither she or I ever considered my being a cuckold, the word just wasn't in our vocabulary. Anyway, we've posted about that event elsewhere on this site if you care to know the nitty gritty details. Enjoy!!
No its not a fantasy! I simply prefer to see my wife satisfied by hung men
It's become a reality of something I want to life.
I don't feel like I can't satisfy women, quite the opposite. My sex life has been various and full but that doesn't mean something hasn't been missing.
It's not just a sex thing in my mind anymore, sure a year ago it was a hot fetish/kink to fantasies about and jerk off to but that's changed, maybe it always has been this way.
Regardless I am pretty new to accepting that it's part of me, I've yet to live it but I regard it as reality, something that if the right time place and person turned up, I would do so in a heart beat.
I don't feel like I can't satisfy women, quite the opposite. My sex life has been various and full but that doesn't mean something hasn't been missing.
It's not just a sex thing in my mind anymore, sure a year ago it was a hot fetish/kink to fantasies about and jerk off to but that's changed, maybe it always has been this way.
Regardless I am pretty new to accepting that it's part of me, I've yet to live it but I regard it as reality, something that if the right time place and person turned up, I would do so in a heart beat.
mfm4birthday
Couple
It is primarily fantasy for us, but we have dabbled a lot. The only things we have not dabbled in is pregnancy risk and prolonged chastity.
Was just a fantasy for a very long time, but I’m thankful to say that it’s FINALLY a full time reality for me!!! It’s been tough going trying to find her the right Bull, but fingers crossed I think we just might have!!!
it is fantasy until i marry that right white lady who would regularly cuck me with big black cocks
It’s reality for us. We’re very sexual and we love to explore & play with others. As long as our partners are clean, hygienic, safe, and don’t mind good conversations beforehand and afterwards, we’re in it 100%. We like to build solid rapport with our bulls.
Janus Marko
Male
In my teens and 20s I was in an ‘open’ relationship but admittedly my girlfriend and eventually my first wife ended up getting fucked by other guys or in threesomes with me and another guy more often than any other combination. Usually my idea. I gave her to friends to fuck for their birthdays multiple times.
At the time I told myself it was because I enjoyed her being submissive to me and doing whatever I wanted her to, but toward the end and now looking back I realize it was way more about other guys fucking her. The most intense memories are not when I was watching, it is how I felt when she was being fucked when I wasn’t there to watch.
Since then my erotica and porn skewed more toward hot wife than anything, but I still wasn’t fully facing my cuckold nature. Although a reoccurring fantasy (inspired by that movie Apocalyptico) is being a young tribal hunter with a pretty young wife and small baby but in a tribal society where the leader of the tribe regularly fucks any other married woman whenever he wants. And my pretty young wife being the one he fucks most of the time. The idea of waiting outside in the middle of the night until he finishes with her is intensely arousing.
Then I met my current GF 3 years ago when she was 20 and I was 38. She told me from the beginning she had fucked over 30 black guys and preferred huge black cock, and that completely lit the fire of competition for me. I knew I had to compete anyway as someone much older, but now I was competiting against another race as well! But what I didn’t realize at first was that I wasn’t just competiting against her memories or preferences, she was actively fucking black guys behind my back. Lots of them.
When I found out I was hurt and angry and I fought and fought. Lots of emotional turmoil. Lots of confusion about how I would get intensely jealous but that would just make me want to fuck her more. But eventually all the pieces clicked together and I started to realize not only how much it turned me on, but how much I really wanted her to be fucking young guys with huge cocks. And that I wanted her to be doing it when I was away on business trips or whenever I wasn’t around. And then how I wanted her to send me away so she could fuck them.
And ultimately fully accepting that I didn’t just want her to be fucked by other men, but by black men. Maybe just because I know that’s what she likes, or maybe just because that’s what was happening, but I fully admit she conditioned me. I have a strong need for her to be stretched and pounded raw by BBC and know they are filling her with their cum just like they have been doing since she was 18.
At the time I told myself it was because I enjoyed her being submissive to me and doing whatever I wanted her to, but toward the end and now looking back I realize it was way more about other guys fucking her. The most intense memories are not when I was watching, it is how I felt when she was being fucked when I wasn’t there to watch.
Since then my erotica and porn skewed more toward hot wife than anything, but I still wasn’t fully facing my cuckold nature. Although a reoccurring fantasy (inspired by that movie Apocalyptico) is being a young tribal hunter with a pretty young wife and small baby but in a tribal society where the leader of the tribe regularly fucks any other married woman whenever he wants. And my pretty young wife being the one he fucks most of the time. The idea of waiting outside in the middle of the night until he finishes with her is intensely arousing.
Then I met my current GF 3 years ago when she was 20 and I was 38. She told me from the beginning she had fucked over 30 black guys and preferred huge black cock, and that completely lit the fire of competition for me. I knew I had to compete anyway as someone much older, but now I was competiting against another race as well! But what I didn’t realize at first was that I wasn’t just competiting against her memories or preferences, she was actively fucking black guys behind my back. Lots of them.
When I found out I was hurt and angry and I fought and fought. Lots of emotional turmoil. Lots of confusion about how I would get intensely jealous but that would just make me want to fuck her more. But eventually all the pieces clicked together and I started to realize not only how much it turned me on, but how much I really wanted her to be fucking young guys with huge cocks. And that I wanted her to be doing it when I was away on business trips or whenever I wasn’t around. And then how I wanted her to send me away so she could fuck them.
And ultimately fully accepting that I didn’t just want her to be fucked by other men, but by black men. Maybe just because I know that’s what she likes, or maybe just because that’s what was happening, but I fully admit she conditioned me. I have a strong need for her to be stretched and pounded raw by BBC and know they are filling her with their cum just like they have been doing since she was 18.
