My wife is a sultry redhead and prior to marriage had dated two black men. She has a general interest in BBC as a fantasy and I typically drive the fantasy side of our love making.
Is there a point where the fantasy is pushed to hard and it begins to negatively impact the marriage? I consider this fantasy enactment to be a spectrum, starting with the mere mention of an idea on one end to the completion of the act on the other. Has anyone experienced the perfect spot between fantasy and reality that had a positive impact in the marriage without going full BBC gangbang double pen type activity? Is just flirting enough or dancing with a black guy the sweet spot?
This is the kind of question directed at the 90% of us on the site just in fantasy land and not really 'about that life'.
Is there a point where the fantasy is pushed to hard and it begins to negatively impact the marriage? I consider this fantasy enactment to be a spectrum, starting with the mere mention of an idea on one end to the completion of the act on the other. Has anyone experienced the perfect spot between fantasy and reality that had a positive impact in the marriage without going full BBC gangbang double pen type activity? Is just flirting enough or dancing with a black guy the sweet spot?
This is the kind of question directed at the 90% of us on the site just in fantasy land and not really 'about that life'.