Exploring my interest in BBC without cheating...

ShySlut97

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I adore my boyfriend; we're in our early 20's and have been together since middle school and I genuinely have no interest in cheating on him. Despite that I've got a blossoming interest in BBC and possibly swinging or some controlled cuckoldry. I'm not really sure what it is I want yet and I'm definitely not ready to tell him. Anyone have any advice on how I should move forward and explore my new interests in a controlled, safe way?
 
I would also verify first sweetie. As for me I cheated on my husband for a long time with black men and don't regret it at all it was amazing and I would do it all over again if I could. That was just my take on it and it worked
Love this answer. I don't care if you're married, they usually don't care either. I've fucked a lot of women that are in loving, endearing relationships but also know that they desire nothing else but a thick, long-dicked, dominant man to devour her.
There's such a rush knowing that it's wrong, but only okay if no one finds out. Knowing that I'll be the best she ever had will keep her quiet, always wanting more. Submitting to me
 
Once when my husband and I were out on a date, I got a little tipsy and flirted with our handsome black waiter. I had just found tribute vids on my husbands computer that he had guys make with my pictures. My husband still wasn't "out" to me about his fantasy. But that night, I got to sort of test his reaction a little. I think we both were a bit more honest and open because we could blame it on the alcohol 😂 .. he couldn't stop smiling at me, saying "He likes you.." then progressively gaining the courage to say a little more like "I bet he'd fuck your brains out if given the chance."

All that being said, I think it would be an easier idea to come by, if you inched your way into the suggestion through actions. In front of him, flirty at a bar or something. That way you could gauge his reaction - if it turns him on he'd be less likely to shut it down because of social norms - you don't get that added visual when you bring it up like routine conversation. Imo that would be ruin your chances before you even began. Lol
 
Just both get naked have some foreplay (but don't fuck him yet) ask him about his kinkey fantasy (what ever he tells you will be a fantasy but not the "big one") and while your stroking his cock, tell him about your bbc wishes!! You can tell how in to it he is byhow hard the fucker gets!! .....that's how my gf told me abt her online Dom, impossible for a guy to hide his excitement!!!
 
Love this answer. I don't care if you're married, they usually don't care either. I've fucked a lot of women that are in loving, endearing relationships but also know that they desire nothing else but a thick, long-dicked, dominant man to devour her.
There's such a rush knowing that it's wrong, but only okay if no one finds out. Knowing that I'll be the best she ever had will keep her quiet, always wanting more. Submitting to me
In my opinion it's not wrong at all
 
I adore my boyfriend; we're in our early 20's and have been together since middle school and I genuinely have no interest in cheating on him. Despite that I've got a blossoming interest in BBC and possibly swinging or some controlled cuckoldry. I'm not really sure what it is I want yet and I'm definitely not ready to tell him. Anyone have any advice on how I should move forward and explore my new interests in a controlled, safe way?
Reading this I thought about my twenties. If I had a girlfriend like you I would have been very happy
 
Get into the Swinger's lifestyle......have hub enjoy sexual adventures with you........here are friends of ours in Mexico.....the wife and one the local men in Cancun hit it off while their in a bar by the beach......and her hub loves seeing her in sexual ecstacy !!My wife with mex. local and another man 2 good.jpg
 
I think you should first try "occasionally" by watching porn with him click on some interracial- at the begin no cuckold or 3some - just interracial...
Or ask him if he likes black women. This could start conversation first. Than you can tell him that you likes some black people....you can tell you heard that blacks do have big cocks and search as if like you want to see if it s true...
Try to masturbate him while you are involved in this conversation or by watching interracial porn, or suck his cock with edging- when he will be excited more and more he will be more inclined to this topic- play with him, use your best but don't let him cum for long time to give him possibility to tell you he likes it...
The closer to cum he will be the more probably he will like interracial- tease him verbally if you will see he is in it and edge him more times....
Than leave him cum and tell him how much harder he was and how much more bigger his load was by watching it...
Next day don't speak about it and watch his reaction next time by opportunity...
Make small steps- just don't rush
 
I adore my boyfriend; we're in our early 20's and have been together since middle school and I genuinely have no interest in cheating on him. Despite that I've got a blossoming interest in BBC and possibly swinging or some controlled cuckoldry. I'm not really sure what it is I want yet and I'm definitely not ready to tell him. Anyone have any advice on how I should move forward and explore my new interests in a controlled, safe way?
You should watch black porn and then tell him?
 
I adore my boyfriend; we're in our early 20's and have been together since middle school and I genuinely have no interest in cheating on him. Despite that I've got a blossoming interest in BBC and possibly swinging or some controlled cuckoldry. I'm not really sure what it is I want yet and I'm definitely not ready to tell him. Anyone have any advice on how I should move forward and explore my new interests in a controlled, safe way?
Definitely ease into it. I think IR porn is actually a good idea. Be open and honest and you have to be willing to allow him to play around if he wants to to even the playing field if he doesn’t want to be cucked. You have to remove the insecurity and reassure him that it’s just sex and that you love him only
 
Definitely ease into it. I think IR porn is actually a good idea. Be open and honest and you have to be willing to allow him to play around if he wants to to even the playing field if he doesn’t want to be cucked. You have to remove the insecurity and reassure him that it’s just sex and that you love him only
Hi Pawgmbbc Love your pics I think it’s awesome that you want to explore like that any luck?
 
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