ETHNICITY, BDSM/ROUGH LOVE AND RACE PLAY

[HornandTail]

A little background here.
I'm a french black man, 36ans, from the caribean west Indies. I'm not what you can objectively call a "Bull", mostly by U.S critera.
i'm little/average sized,( 171cm), light skinned(to my sorrow), dancer/Acrobat build, and if you like fantasy( fellow Game of Throner, hi!! Even althought i'm more into ROBIN HOBB Farseer)
more akin to a "Dark elf" Jester, no so much a Idriss Elba/massive glute/Linebacker powerhouse type of guy.
(In France, UsFootball is margin, tradition and sport institution tend to prefer Rugby...But i disgress...)
Colonialism and slavery are part of my identity, but French relation to his past is well documented, so there isn't a real crispation on this subject, and there is a lot well known figure from the past
who were black, or mixed-heritage( Mulatre,a degoratory term, i'm not sure, english counterpart= Mulatto) who had rizen in proeminence in these era.
this history snippet isn't about my mastery of historic relation between people and race but about perception of race play, and related bdsm-oriented roleplay.
It's seem a little taboo here( i mean, in USA, with all respect) or it's just a perception?
Where i come from, The interracial fetish is pretty common, but the Real queen of Spades lifestyle is ultra niche, behind-the-scene type of community, mostly experimented or very active swinger.
Yet even, with more vanilla encounter, the racial element are present. Do race play have a place in a hard Cuckold/Hotwife relationship?
DISCLAIMER
English isn't my native language, and i have somewhat a hard time to convey my opinion in a good english form (work in progress), so i hope a little kindness about my grammar/Lexical choice.

 

[Abdji]

Hello brother.
Interesting post.
I have been a stallion for many couples in Europe in the past and I can say that the role play related to race (and consequently to racism and eugenics) is very much practiced.
I am Liberian (so very dark skinned) and I noticed that my "color", together with my features, constitutes a strong fetish for whites.

 

[Anna Secrets]

It’s definitely part of the game, my husband is only offering me to black men !
Je suis française ?

 

[BruceJenner76]

It’s definitely part of the game, my husband is only offering me to black men !
Je suis française ?

outside of marriage pussy should be reserved for black men.

 

[Anna Secrets]

outside of marriage pussy should be reserved for black men.

He wants to see myself as a bitch, and it makes me more bitchy if I’m doing it with a black man, there is some kind of humiliation in that we cannot deny it

 

[BruceJenner76]

He wants to see myself as a bitch, and it makes me more bitchy if I’m doing it with a black man, there is some kind of humiliation in that we cannot deny it

yeah, I get it, a black man has his dick in your wife and she is liking it better. How can you deny that LOL

 

[Abdji]

He wants to see myself as a bitch, and it makes me more bitchy if I’m doing it with a black man, there is some kind of humiliation in that we cannot deny it

You're spreading your legs for a Black-skinned foreigner. You're like an ******* in heat who wants a strong male. I think his mind is workin hard on it...

 

[Anna Secrets]

yeah, I get it, a black man has his dick in your wife and she is liking it better. How can you deny that LOL

The wife speaking there , humiliation in sex is a complex stuff and is not working the same way for all of us

 

[BruceJenner76]

The wife speaking there , humiliation in sex is a complex stuff and is not working the same way for all of us

NO doubt, it psychology

 

[Abdji]

The wife speaking there , humiliation in sex is a complex stuff and is not working the same way for all of us

100% agreed

 

[Noreen]

race play is a big part of the fantasy. isnt that what this site is all about?

i've met lots of couples over the last few years, mostly south-asian/muslim and there's always a big race element to their fantasies.

 

[HornandTail]

when i talk about race play, i focus on roleplay (marauding slave, thug and other stereotype), not just the "black" fetish, based on the appeal of a "different body"
i concede it's a touchy subject.
Abdji i totally aggree, i think, in certain circle, hard race play( with heavy bdsm/Senseless fucking, lot of dirty dirty talk) mask some ambivalent perception. i see you're in tchecoslovaquia, so "Dobri dhien" from Kladno, where i have some really pervert friends.
Anna Secrets
Yeah, i'm not suprised by your amswers. can you explain, why you seem more "bitch" with a black man? No with Arabs or chinese?
It's really a genuine question.

 

[Abdji]

when i talk about race play, i focus on roleplay (marauding slave, thug and other stereotype), not just the "black" fetish, based on the appeal of a "different body"
i concede it's a touchy subject.
Abdji i totally aggree, i think, in certain circle, hard race play( with heavy bdsm/Senseless fucking, lot of dirty dirty talk) mask some ambivalent perception. i see you're in tchecoslovaquia, so "Dobri dhien" from Kladno, where i have some really pervert friends.
[...]

I must admit that using words (role play, creating imaginary situations ...) in a racial sense, has for me and my females a strong element of excitement.
Yes, I live near Brno from less than six months (before I was in Italy). So many beautiful mares here.

 

[SabrinaH]

Brno has a good black phallic symbol

 

[CottonTail]

There is something about D/S and interracial that goes together so well.

 

[Gwen Taylor]

There is something about D/S and interracial that goes together so well.

For most people, D/s enhances the interracial experience. Certainly some prefer not to add that dimension, but others prefer it. As with much in life, it varies from one individual to another.

 

[inevitableBNWO]

For most people, D/s enhances the interracial experience. Certainly some prefer not to add that dimension, but others prefer it. As with much in life, it varies from one individual to another.

 

[inevitableBNWO]

There is something about D/S and interracial that goes together so well.

What does D/S mean?
You look hot.

 

[inevitableBNWO]

Brno has a good black phallic symbol

It's hot.

 

[kaito77]

Where i come from, The interracial fetish is pretty common, but the Real queen of Spades lifestyle is ultra niche, behind-the-scene type of community, mostly experimented or very active swinger.

Because a majority of people are not racist, people can just love share some fun in interracial and love after their partner in life, many people on internet are just crazy with stupid fantasm for masturbate no more.

IRL people are normal and relationship are not crazy like a porno, some people can't do a difference between fantasm and reality, and only a big big minority maybe 0.00001% will living these fantasm and on 0.0001% 99.99% will just masturbate about that and nt assume IRL in front of the society.