This is a serious question. I am pretty much ONLY attracted to black men and always have been. However, my body seems to be far better suited to taking smaller dicks! (Although they have no sexual appeal to me!) Granted, I could manage taking my long time lover's BBC, but since starting up with someone new and seeing just how much BIGGER he is, it really has been difficult taking him! Is this something that gets easier with time? We've tried foreplay, coconut oil, etc. Yet I still almost always tear from him!! Granted, we haven't had a lot of sex yet, just a few times, but I'm wondering if anyone here has advice on this subject...