NYSoccerMomCpl
Female
Have met men alone on occasions, once trust is established and there is chemistry. It’s a nice change of pace and love the excitement of going on a date.
This is a big step and took us a long time. I think patience and having conversations about why and drivers and understanding will help you get there but if you are so insistent, it's going to make him nervous that you're trying to get rid of him. In our mind it's about an enhancent to our overall relationship, and if he doesn't see or understand how that 1:1 experience enables or enhances the core relationship, he may never get behind it.My husband has watch and let us play alone in a room by ourselves but I want more He against it, has any other woman had this problem? Does your lover want to meet alone?
I've only done it with 3 couples. All the hubbys watched our encounters the 1st few times, & watched how I treated her after, & our interactions. Which was really just small talk & laughing, which is why I think i was allowed for them to come over individually & meet in hotels. But everyone's different ,& everything depends.
Basically the same with usHubby always present - we prefer it that way - I feel safer and no secrets. Plus, he enjoys watching - but never participates.
are you talking about your friend that lived with you for 6mos?Not at first, but eventually allowed her to meet him when I wasn’t there.
they wore you down? i bet it was exciting to be at work and thinking about your wife being fucked by another man! and then come home and find her in his bed. do you let her sleep or do you take off your clothes and get you some sloppy seconds, adding your cum to his?Yes, in my job I do shifts so often not at home in the evening and early morning. At first she agreed there would be no fucking while I was at work but I eventually permitted her to go through to his room and have sex with him.
I sometimes came home and she was still in his bed asleep, looking well fucked,
My wife told me that she would like to try BBC I said to her to start dating.My husband doesn't know about my desires anyway, but I think I would prefer to do it alone. Seems like he would be a distraction if he were in the room. But for me it's all theory at this point. :-(