I never cared for any type of toilet games, I enjoy eating pussy and I enjoy having my dick sucked. I also bath regularly and expect my partner to do the same. Personally I don't care for anal sex because I don't like the idea of shit on my dick. The thought of kissing someone after she has licked my asshole shouldn't require explanation. The purpose of sharing your bed with someone is to give and to get pleasure. It shouldn't be a contest to see to what lengths your partner will go to to please you.