So in my humble opinion each couple is different. Different kinks, different leans so to speak. Iβve been denied for a certain period of time, been caged etc. Itβs all with the intent on being hot, fun, euphoric. Cuckolding is about the wife. βWhat can I do to please you baby?β is the question we should be asking. Once a husband/BF gives up the dominant role by letting another man enjoy his wife, he has made it where he has agreed that her sexual fulfillment out weighs his own. He derives pleasure from her pleasures. It really has to be based on love and the feeling that I will do anything to make her happy. That may include her being bbc only, it may not. It may be permanent or it may not. In a love based relationship the wife will know when to please her husband and how he needs to be pleased. There are so many different ways to take a cuckold relationship. Personally I donβt like all the castration, feminization stuff but thatβs just me. Another couple might really like that. I guess my point is this, the wife now has the power to make that decision. I trust her to know how to not take it too far. I gave up that decision by going down this road. If she wants me pussy free or if she wants her BBC bull to decide then so be it, I will find a way to make that hot as hell!