Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by wifey123, Sep 1, 2015.
Hello guys this is the husband can I have your honest opinions please.
I'm not sure if my wife would actually go for this well she tells me she wouldn't but maybe you can give me your opinion on this we have been watching interracial porn with about a year now at first she didn't really like it she commented on some of the black males penis in the porn videos saying is that real and it's too big but anyway I'm the first and only guy she has ever slept with she comes from a strict old fashioned family just to settle down with one man and be faithful which she is and I have always trusted her she just always wants to be a good loyal housewife a few weeks ago we came home from a night out on the town she was kinda half drunk if you know what I mean she dressed up in a fishnet costume and heels we where watching porn a video of a white couple having sex we watched a few videos like that but she didn't pay much attention to them she was quite bored so I then put on a video of a blonde similar looking woman to herself fucking a huge big black cock and she said oh yeah leave this on I love videos with blonde girls in them she got real wet climbed on top of me and fucked me hard while watching the video and yelling oh baby I love your big fat cock but my cock is six and a half inches and there's nothing really fat about it and then last week she had quite a few glasses of wine it was midnight she was dressed up again in heels and suspenders we where watching a movie about blacks on blondes she was lying there watching it and she referred to a big black cock in the video she slipped up oh imagine that in my pussy and I said what and she said oh I meant to say your cock because she is not the kind that usually talks like that but I think I know what she meant so as she was watching the video she was fucking herself with a black realistic dildo she told me that it felt so real It was just 7 inches about a half inch bigger than me but thicker and a lot more veins she had a few orgasms and the weren't like the ones she do have with me she was heavy breathing and moaning moving her body up and down like she was fucking it back I could tell how much she enjoyed it even doh she don't like to talk about it afterwards we were at the car wash a few days ago and and there was two black males in a car the honked the horn as she walked past there car she started to shake her ass more in those tight jeans she had on she came back over to our car and I said baby did you see what does guys did and she was smiling and said yeah black guys always do that to me and the do be looking at my butt the gives me a hard time she said but she laughed it off I have to admit I enjoyed all of it.
So what ever about the old fashioned strict family one man only have to be faithful shit am I going crazy or what is your opinion on this
Your wife shows a lot of good indicators that she'll eventually try a new lover or two, or more. It sounds like she's still testing the waters as to whether you're serious or not; you maybe should think about that as well. Are you really serious in letting her take new lovers, because its not that easy to put the contents of Pandora's box back in the box once they're out. She's the one being logical and cautious here. She enjoys her marriage with you, she honors her marriage vows, and she simply uses your videos to stimulate herself while having sex with you. But, the teasing will eventually get old, and she'll want more, and that's where she wonders IF she does, if she gives in, how will you really act, and look at her later on. And she probably wonders, too, if she gives in, does this mean you'll be freed to pursue other women when you desire ... because women don't like sharing their husbands with other women, and is a main reason why this wife sharing is so illogical to them.
And to be honest, a lot of men aren't totally sure, themselves, how they'll react later, after their wives have given in and began pursuing other lovers. You'll not always be there to see it, or even know about her affairs, but later, you'll sometimes be able to tell when she's been with another man, and her time with you will become more limited as she makes time for her lovers. So, these are things to think about before you continue encouraging her ... as I said, the indicators are there that she'll eventually try it. One of those things that escapes from Pandora's box that is hardest to put back is your feelings for her should you realize, later, it was a mistake. Emotions are hard to eradicate. I believe she may know that and you just haven't given it all that much thought.
You guys are young ... she's 23? Wow ... everyone that young deserves to sample the wide assortments of sexual fun at that age before you become too old to either do it or attract the ones you'd do it with ... so, best of luck. Mac
So do you think based on what I told you she would go for it maybe if I wasn't around because she is shy she cant take no more than seven inches I work on her taking my time all I could fit in her was a seven inches we had a 8 inch dildo it wouldn't all fit in her
....No, that's not what I mean. Your lady is trustworthy and seems to be of strong moral fabric ... she values her relationship and marriage with you more than giving in to lustful feelings. I think she'd like to experience these things BUT she's not going to cheat on you, it appears. She's just wanting you to convince her that you're really serious and that no harm or ill feelings will happen if she does as you desire ... she wants to, no doubt!
....Good marriages are built on more than just sex, however, some couples (or at least one of the partners of a marriage) sometimes puts more importance of what they desire in good sex, so when sex gets boring or routine to them, they find themselves not as excited with their partner and problems begin to arise.
....You simply need to convince her that her having other sexual partners will only strengthen your relationship ... get her to relax and consider the possibilities of another man. Possibly convincing her to consider a 3-some so she can see your excitement. As I said, the indicators of her doing what you want are there ... that's good if that's what you want to happen. Maybe others here can make suggestions (particularly some of the ladies) as to how you might go about convincing her to fulfill that fantasy.
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