Thanks for the likes
For me, thats the one bad bit of condoms, i'd love my cum to be wanted, lusted for, desired and savoured etc. by my wife or any woman in the past, but 99% of it over the past 40 years has gone in the trash. Its like its just an annoying by product that I produce thats more a hinderance to my wife, that she has no real want, use or need for.
Agreed. I’m way more attentive to her every sexual whim and she knows it. We couldn’t go back to the way we were before if we had to. We’d both fail.
This IS the way things should be.
There is nothing wrong with this dynamic if that’s what works for you and her.
No, it works for us. She doesn't deny me cumming at all, she actually encourages it. Se knew from the day we met I was a 'habitual' masturbator, and she had no problem with that. Her ex cheated on her a lot, so she was more than happy for me to cum as much as I need as long it was with my own hand and not another woman in sight. And so, not getting her bare pussy has been like that for us since day one, so I know no different. It doesn't cause arguments, because no one has moved the goal posts, or reneged on a previous commitment. And as I said, she always encourages me to masturbate as much as I want or need, to the point she buys me toys, fake pussy's and even had seven (one for each day) special 'wankerchiefs' embroidered with my cuck name for me for my 50th birthday. We always keep one under my pillow so its nice and handyThere is nothing wrong with this dynamic if that’s what works for you and her.
She says its like a 'security blanket for me 
That is very cool!No, it works for us. She doesn't deny me cumming at all, she actually encourages it. Se knew from the day we met I was a 'habitual' masturbator, and she had no problem with that. Her ex cheated on her a lot, so she was more than happy for me to cum as much as I need as long it was with my own hand and not another woman in sight. And so, not getting her bare pussy has been like that for us since day one, so I know no different. It doesn't cause arguments, because no one has moved the goal posts, or reneged on a previous commitment. And as I said, she always encourages me to masturbate as much as I want or need, to the point she buys me toys, fake pussy's and even had seven (one for each day) special 'wankerchiefs' embroidered with my cuck name for me for my 50th birthday. We always keep one under my pillow so its nice and handy
Thanks. She likes that she knows overtime I cum even if she's asleep. When I get up in the morning I throw the soaked one in the laundry, and when she makes the bed, she checks under my pillow to see if she needs to put a fresh one there for the night ahead. That way she keeps track that i'm using them on a daily need.
Does he at least get a chance to worship your ass?
That pretty sums up what I saw her first time. He took control of her and she was in multiple orgasm heaven. Sex with all those white men did not prepare her for, as she calls it, "Real Sex."
Hahahaha. I love it! What a conversation starter!Thanks. She likes that she knows overtime I cum even if she's asleep. When I get up in the morning I throw the soaked one in the laundry, and when she makes the bed, she checks under my pillow to see if she needs to put a fresh one there for the night ahead. That way she keeps track that i'm using them on a daily need.
The awkward bit is when you haven't done the laundry for a whole week and your 7 pale blue 'blanky's' are hanging on the washing line, front row with your name on them and its only once friends drop by for a bbq that you realise, hoping they don't notice them, that that there is what your pussy free sex life is, 7 previously cum soaked face washers flapping in the wind, drying and waiting to be used again next week
Domination, humiliation and the associated rituals and play that go along with these things including BBC worship are part of the “whole” here. Some of us, both female and male partners enjoy these things, some of us like you, do not. It would not be too wise on your part I do not believe, to place to much emphasis on these things that some might enjoy just because you do not, or do not agree with the principles of them. We each have our different kinks, and find pleasure in different ways and different situations. I have yet to see or receive a message from anyone here being treated against their wishes, wants or desires.
lol, yes well, didn't give them the chance, once i'd realised all 7 were there front and centre, I quickly gathered them up. Some things are best kept as a secret, and i'm sure as fun as it might be for others to see evidence of my masturbatory method and frequency, its not something I need as a party starterHahahaha. I love it! What a conversation starter!
