For us it's all about the seduction and intimacy, and then watching the bulls dominance take over as he uses my body for his release. I always dress for an evening with a bull, and the husband loves to watch our friends reaction as he undress me. I can't explain the passion being in my husbands arms as a bull eats me, and then gives my hole its first poke of the night, all while husband is kissing my neck whispering in my ear.
We have talked about this many time intimately amongst ourselves once our friend has left for the evening, and there is something about my husband gripping me and hearing every cry or pleasure as a bull take me , that is just such an adrenaline rush for us. My husband isn't a sissy cuck, he is there to orchestrate my pleasure, which in turn gets him off. I think we might be unique in this perspective, but truly are in this for both our kinks and pleasure, not just mine.
Long winded, all but #3 and#5 just not my thing.