Ever since getting into cuckolding porn I found that my performance has gone way down in bed. I don't last as long and have become a pretty quick shooter. It's gotten so prevalent me and my wife don't have intercourse often anymore. The premature ejaculation issues have become a regular thing for me. As a wannabe cuckold, I would strongly prefer to let my wife be satisfied by a huge cock that could pound her senseless while I watch and then clean her up after. It would just easier that way for me. Any one feel like this?
Cuckolds Performance anxiety
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We have experienced the same. The longer in the lifestyle we have been the quicker I cum. While I lasted a good 20-30 minutes before these days I cum around 5 minutes. This in turn makes the wife not wanting to have sex anymore and rather wanting play with her bulls who last a good hour before they cum.
I am going through the same thing and know what your feeling very well. I am at the beginning stages of trying to open my wife up to the idea of black men sexually with mainly the use of a black dildo, as I continue to cum faster then ever (under a few minutes most times) and I always disappoint her not only with quickness but my size of 5" and thin
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...There are several reasons why a man might experience premature ejaculation, and the good news is ALL are correctable IF the male wishes to resolve it. The problem mostly stems around focus of their own orgasms rather than satisfying a partner. Its usually not the premature ejaculation, itself, but the fact that the male temporarily loses interest in sex immediately afterwards and therefore loses his erection ... not good! If a man is sincere in pleasing his lady, however, he can obtain himself s little Viagra and stay hard & erect for hours after an ejaculation. The porn industry has been using this for years.
...If, however, a man says he desires other men to please his wife because he, himself, ejaculates prematurely ... it tells me that he's probably a bit lazy OR has simply lost interest/desire in having normal sex with his female partner. But, please don't use PE as an excuse to farm out your wife, because it really isn't an excuse at all.
...If, however, a man says he desires other men to please his wife because he, himself, ejaculates prematurely ... it tells me that he's probably a bit lazy OR has simply lost interest/desire in having normal sex with his female partner. But, please don't use PE as an excuse to farm out your wife, because it really isn't an excuse at all.
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Ohhh wow
Would you say those are consequences of that exploration, reasons for it, or some combination? your pics are so hot. I wonder about his ( and your)age, if that may factor into some of your dynamic. Regardless, I can't imagine he doesn't count himself a very lucky man!
I am going through the same thing and know what your feeling very well. I am at the beginning stages of trying to open my wife up to the idea of black men sexually with mainly the use of a black dildo, as I continue to cum faster then ever (under a few minutes most times) and I always disappoint her not only with quickness but my size of 4.5"
The large bbc dildo really helps plant the seed. While you are using on her. Ask her if she likes the big black cock. Once you plant the seed and role play it will get easier.
Before deployment I was really making progress with opening my fiance up to the idea of another man getting involved in our marriage and taking control of us. I got us a very large 10 inch dildo (wayyy to big for a first toy) and slowly got her into it.
The problem is how perceptive she is and how she started humiliating me and calling me a faggot LITERALLY every single day, multiple times a day to reinforce the idea. I basically admitted that I am a fag and ever since then I have had terrible performance issues. She can be sucking my dick but unless I close my eyes and imagine being dominated or watch porn and focus on the big black cock I dont even get hard... obviously she notices this and makes it worse.
The problem is how perceptive she is and how she started humiliating me and calling me a faggot LITERALLY every single day, multiple times a day to reinforce the idea. I basically admitted that I am a fag and ever since then I have had terrible performance issues. She can be sucking my dick but unless I close my eyes and imagine being dominated or watch porn and focus on the big black cock I dont even get hard... obviously she notices this and makes it worse.
Irishboy81
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I had moments like that before she knew i was into interracial and even felt guilty that i was imagining her with black guys when we had sex to keep me hard ..
I cannot get hard for women now, or get semi and then dribble my seed, much to the amusement of mistress, that is down to a combination of naturaly developing ED and premature ejaculation and from being punished if I got hard in front of her. However I seem to get hard over BBC , I think its partly our brains and bodies accepting we are useless to women and that we crave the BBC they get in them.
My husband hasn't been able to perform for a very long time well before I got into this lifestyle and is pretty much the reason I strayed in the first place. If he is able to get hard and enter me before he cums he'll be done in less than a minute. That's even when he wears the strap-on I bought him too.
Does it bother him or do you both just see it as a natural part of what he is and of why you need bbc?
He and I have come to terms with it. Besides he eats a mean pussy he's got that going for him
lol good man, I am similar, once having accepted my role properly it seemed almost natural and right that my little clit be of no real useHe and I have come to terms with it. Besides he eats a mean pussy he's got that going for him
