Cuckolds Performance anxiety

It's simply a biological response.

He is trying on compete with a more well-equipped penis. In order to do so his body realizes he needs to shoot first in order to have a chance a fertilization.

The larger head of the black dick will "scoop" out any sperm. Any naturally due to the longer length it's able to do this at deeper depths. So your husband body is trying to get some good swimmers a much needed head start!
I believe I read this theory on some other site. I think it was called sperm competition. When a man sees or thinks his wife/girlfriend is with another man when they have sex with them they tend to cum a lot faster to make sure their seed is deposited quicker to impregnate before the bull does. Longer cocks will indeed remove a lot of the sperm through thrusting. So cuckolding can lead to premature ejaculatation for the cuck when a bull is around or when the cuck thinks the bull will be fucking his wife/girlfriend soon
 
My husband hasn't been able to perform for a very long time well before I got into this lifestyle and is pretty much the reason I strayed in the first place. If he is able to get hard and enter me before he cums he'll be done in less than a minute. That's even when he wears the strap-on I bought him too.

You should transition him from strap on to taking the bull inside him
 
I am going through the same thing and know what your feeling very well. I am at the beginning stages of trying to open my wife up to the idea of black men sexually with mainly the use of a black dildo, as I continue to cum faster then ever (under a few minutes most times) and I always disappoint her not only with quickness but my size of 4.5"
 
I cannot get hard for women now, or get semi and then dribble my seed, much to the amusement of mistress, that is down to a combination of naturaly developing ED and premature ejaculation and from being punished if I got hard in front of her. However I seem to get hard over BBC , I think its partly our brains and bodies accepting we are useless to women and that we crave the BBC they get in them.
I am the exact same way, I can't get hard thinking about women. And when I'm around my wife all I think about is the humiliation and it stops me from pretending to be a man. The only time I can get hard now is when her boyfriend is around and banging her. Or just generally around any bbc gets me hard.
 
For me things start to change slowly when whe started a Femdom relation about 6 years ago. Afcours I got submissive and my mind start to change. I only fucked her good and hard on her command when not in chastity. But after a while I begged her to fuck her dildo before me while I licked her ass. She realy loved it. But regular sex began to decline when whe had sex indeed I cum a lot faster and I could see the regret in her eyes. Now I only can get realy excited when whe talk about cuckolding. My wife understand it but also regret I'm not the lover anymore I was in our younger years where whe realy had great sex together. But I guess that's a choice whe made together. She like to be Dominant in bed, me be her submissive sexslave while get filled by her big dildo. I enjoy sex a lot morenow then when I was her perfect lover in the past. But once in a while she ask me to make love with her the regular way. Those moments I do anything I can to realy please her. She now she have to get her orgasm quick or I already cum, also she get what she call "to wet" but actualy she need a much bigger dick. She love me for doing that but every time whe talk about it after making love whe both have to admit that cuckolding or a threesome with another man who can fill and pound her for a longer time while I'm watching will be the best solution in time.
What also started to change is the fact she seems to get excited by humiliating me while having sex. She tell me she getting realy hot thinking about her fucking another guy while I just watch it and even to let me only listen. But after her multiple rgasm she always tell me it's just fantasy and she will never let it happen for real. Whe will see .....
 
I've never been a big fan of emasculation ... it affects more than just a person's sexual being. Once it gets in a guy's head, it also makes them less affective as a person as well. Its often not something that you can do when having sex and then lay it down when you're done. You guys who think you desire this, I'd do a bit more research on it and understand all the negative side-effects. And you ladies who find this humorous ... show some pic_HEART2.jpg ......;)
 
Have not had a problem with premature ejaculation. However, the more experiences my wife has with BBC the less she feels like taking my rather average to below average white cock into her pussy. She encourages me to jack off as often as I can and to only expect to have sex with her when she feels like it. Which anymore is not very often.
 
Ever since getting into cuckolding porn I found that my performance has gone way down in bed. I don't last as long and have become a pretty quick shooter. It's gotten so prevalent me and my wife don't have intercourse often anymore. The premature ejaculation issues have become a regular thing for me. As a wannabe cuckold, I would strongly prefer to let my wife be satisfied by a huge cock that could pound her senseless while I watch and then clean her up after. It would just easier that way for me. Any one feel like this?
Interesting. Similar circumstances have led hubby and I here to this lifestyle.
 
My husband hasn't been able to perform for a very long time well before I got into this lifestyle and is pretty much the reason I strayed in the first place. If he is able to get hard and enter me before he cums he'll be done in less than a minute. That's even when he wears the strap-on I bought him too.
What an eye opener. It's as if I wrote your reply. Comforting to know we are not alonein this xx
 
I usually cum in less than 5 min. I love to jerk off to videos of my wife get huge BBC. You name it, she has done it with BBC. She doesn't fuck BBC nearly as much as I like but when she does its Fn awesome. After watching 30 min of her getting fucked better than I can ever do including a huge facial, I dont need more than a couple min of her big fat cunt before shooting a load.
 
It's simply a biological response.

He is trying on compete with a more well-equipped penis. In order to do so his body realizes he needs to shoot first in order to have a chance a fertilization.

The larger head of the black dick will "scoop" out any sperm. Any naturally due to the longer length it's able to do this at deeper depths. So your husband body is trying to get some good swimmers a much needed head start!
Scoop out. Or push deeper. ? Many mature wives have lubrication issues and their husbands cum is a good lubrication for the bbc that's about to go deep and stretch them very wide.
 
I am going through the same thing and know what your feeling very well. I am at the beginning stages of trying to open my wife up to the idea of black men sexually with mainly the use of a black dildo, as I continue to cum faster then ever (under a few minutes most times) and I always disappoint her not only with quickness but my size of 4.5"
 
You are not alone. More and More white men have this issue especially when faced with a large BBC having sex with the wives and the wives begging for more. Such a huge surprise to see the wife as such a slut for BBC yet such a huge turn on as well
 
My husband hasn't been able to perform for a very long time well before I got into this lifestyle and is pretty much the reason I strayed in the first place. If he is able to get hard and enter me before he cums he'll be done in less than a minute. That's even when he wears the strap-on I bought him too.
I'm like your hubby. I can get an erection, but I either go soft on entry or cum in about 10 seconds. My wife isn't allowing me to fuck her any more for good reason. My last time inside was 9 months ago.
 
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