As one being in the cuckold lifestyle, have you and the Mrs. ever been involved in being part of a swingers community where you've got steady access to sampling/being sampled by black men, or do you prefer doing your thing solo, with no other outsider knowing?
We've never been part of the swinger thing, although it would have been fun. Unfortunately, as we have learned from being in the BDSM community, there is too much STD/STI stuff floating around out there and, as we are both reluctant to chance catching anything that would rain on our parade, we stay to ourselves.
The only way she will take a lover is if she knows him well enough to want to have sex with him and he has all the appropriate testing done with us and become fluid bonded. Not super likely to happen, but there is always a chance it might.
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