how do i start learning. i think she wants me to be one, she has been flirting with black men from work for months and the other night she stayed over night at a guys house.
what do i do now to learn
You start first by declaring to yourself what you desire apart from her cucking you. For you to acknowledge that you so want to be a sub to you'd wife and her lover, and that you will remain true to them having power over you.