Sounds like you are a Hot wife or Stag & Vixen couple. Enjoy what ever aspects of the lifestyle that turn you on! You write the rules for your life! But using commonly accepted terms will help you find compatible partners.re: Cuckold or hotwife?
Although it seems cuckold has become less gender specific these days, normally a male married spouse or a unmarried male in a supposedly monogamous relationship with a female is considered the cuckold if the female in the relationship is having sex with other men.
Note that a male cuckold may or may not be aware of his female partner's activities, or whether the male lovers are black or white, is purely coincidental to the terminology. Also, the cuckold normally remains monogamous in the relationship.
An old term used for married men who encourage their wives to have sex with other men is called a wittol.
A hot wife is simply a married woman who is having regular sex with other men.
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Good response, Quixote. I personally don't care what one's understanding of a word is, but when trying to communicate about a topic, it makes sense that everyone have a somewhat understanding of what each important word in the (subject or topic) means. For example, if we were taking a English to Spanish language course, and the words we were being taught to say were different than what the actual word meant in Spanish, we might have just saved our time trying to learn Spanish, as no one speaking Spanish would understand what we were saying anyway.@MacNfries is correct in his description of the classic usage of the word cuckold and this remains Webster's definition. English, however, is an evolving language and at least in the fetish world, that include this website and Fetlife.com, the majority have come to accept that we need to differentiate between different aspects of this lifestyle and for better or worse have refined the word cuckold in the process.
You have really amazing posts and pictures, WOW!!! Your husband is a lucky man. I am curious, do you enjoy seeing a black man dominating your husband? If so, what has been your favorite experience with this?Tweener. Depends on the bull. I am all sub and a dom bull can bring that out in my husband too.