It's way more of us than them. If u wanna wait around for a couple to reach out to you, you'll be waiting a while cuz better believe they got about 17 dudes in they inbox shooting they shot. Lol. Now the key is to reach out in a respectful way with a lil game involved and not the typical bravado or the 1 word messages. Shoot yo shot brother. (Unless they specifically stated somewhere not to reach out)