Easygliderpro
Male
What may appears from the outside is so good and appealing, it may be way different than you think. This lifestyle it's NOT for everyone and it has some pros and mostly cons. If you are NOT careful, it may look appeasing as honey to the eye, but later it will sting you as a bee and it will hurt you for a long time. One thing I know about women is, they want real men in and out of the bedroom and the majority they don't want cuckolds.
It amazes me how little so many today really don't understand what love from sex is. They equate love with infatuation. And nowhere has this taken hold more firmly than in the minds of our young people. I was reading some definitions of love that teenagers had given recently. One said, “Love is an inward inexpressibility of an outward all-overishness.” Another remarked, “Love is a feeling you feel when you feel you’re going to feel a feeling you never felt before.”
Now we may chuckle a little when we read those words, but we have to remember it’s not their fault they see love in such a shallow light. Our culture constantly feeds this misconception in our movies, music, and other media. These young people are simply regurgitating what they’ve been told!
But the truth is, love is not just a feeling... it’s a commitment. And while our world says, “I love you because of what you do for me,” true and real love says, “I love you because God first loved me.”
Real love loves after the infatuation is over. It loves when you’ve been staring at the same person over corn flakes for thirty years. So don’t let our culture, or anyone tell you what love is. Love because of the love of Christ that’s in you!
Bottom line, you are a young man, and there are plenty of girls/ women who will love you and go out with you. There's no need to be a cuckold to be with a woman from here or anywhere. Stay strong and be confident of who you really are. Find yourself good loving friends with positive attitude, and life will start opening up for you.....Smile, God loves you....
