The only reason I was reluctant to admit it was because back in those times it was dangerous to even suggest an interracial relationship. We've come a long way and so happy to see how things have changed and progressed.
Changing Wife's Mind
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If my wife reads this post she will deny every bit of it right up until we are having sex and she nearly orgasms everytime I mention something about it. I'm not particularly turned on one way or the other by the racial aspect of my wife fucking a black man other than the I guess "taboo" part of it which would mostly still be the case with any other guy I shared her with. But at some point in the past a young black guy at her work started hitting on her and while discussing it she seemed to be kind of overly defensive by first saying she wasn't attracted to black guys and then talking about how her mom has always told her that was wrong growing up. This fasciated me as I'd never taken face into consideration when deciding if I thought a woman was attractive or not and had went out a few times with a couple black girls I knew. And obviously I had dated many more white woman than that probably cuz mostly black women are already a minority of the women in this country and just like most white men they are an even smaller part of my social circle. And maybe to a certain extent I'm naturally more easily attracted to white women just from being more familiar with them but I would never eliminate someone as a potential partner just based on race like she seemed to be doing. And since we had both long ago moved away from home and had our own family it was even more strange that her mom's prejudices still played such a role in her outlook on life. But after talking it over a little more and paying attention to off hand remarks she made i noticed she began to contradict herself by making comments about some particular black guy she found attractive and sharing suggestive remarks of a sexual nature about him. I also noticed that when I brought it up occasionally while not having sex that she would seem to deny she could bring herself to have sex with a black guy almost a little too strongly but would then sit and name black guys she found attractive and would never say no if I'd ask if she would let them fuck her but rather would just say she couldn't do that and most often give the excuse of being married as the reason. I also noticed that while during foreplay or while having sex I were to talk dirty to her about either letting another guy fuck her or just letting them in to watch me fuck her she would suddenly get extremely wet even more than she already does and if I were to ask her if she liked that black guy watching us then she'd always respond by moaning or saying uh huh. And if I asked what she would do if there were a black guy watching and he wanted to fuck her then she would instantly explode and have a huge orgasm and often several others right behind it. So I think it's obvious that the idea of sex with a black man turns her on but she's also reluctant or embarrassed to admit it due to the way she was raised. And for some reason that made me really want to see it happen but most likely cuz I want to see her give into her wants rather than let her mom's hang ups control get life and because I know if she did that she just be really into it or she wouldn't be doing it and the "naughty" factor ingrained in her growing up would most likely add to her enjoyment when giving in as well. And she wouldn't get that turned on at the mention of it if deep down part of her didn't really want to do it and I'm all about making sure she fulfills every fantasy and desire she can. And directly after sex she's all about talking about sharing her and even wants to set up a time and place but then as soon as her hormones come back down to normal she starts overthinking it and saying she'd be afraid the other guy might but think she's any good or he might be staring at her flaws the whole time and she talks herself out of it. So I've been working on setting her up with an opportunity during a time when I know she will be in the mood for sex so she can decide right then to go with it or back out based on whether she's enjoying herself or not at that moment rather than talking herself down a day or two beforehand and stressing out over it so we will see what happens and hopefully she doesn't read this before it happens and she ruins things before they start by overthinking them.
Can you tell us what you have planned?
Thank you for sharing your experience in such a well-written manner. You're very right about it usually being a suggestion from the husband, it's refreshing to read your situation of being the opposite. I can almost guarantee that, when you admitted to him that the guys you used to fuck were all black, he leaked pre-cum in his underpants.
It's great that you still make sure he will have a role in your BBC-only sex life, couples that play together stay together. Have you thought about turning the tables on him and pegging him while he stays in chastity?
I'd also suggest, if you're both open to that kind of play, finding bulls that will let him suck their BBC together with you.
What's stopping you from combining it? A good friend hubby needs to understand your needs! Perhaps he himself fantasizes about you with another man? This is becoming more and more common among white hubby, thanks to active propaganda in porn...
You just need to find a white husband who is excited by this and who is ready to be your friend and support while enjoying your debauchery and the fact that only a black cock can give you pleasure...
Mrs j t
Female
OCRAW. It is so true what you say about staying in the vanilla lifestyle. You don't really know us white girls very well. Yes we have all heard the myth about black men having larger cocks than white men. But, as you know, this isn't true. The reality of the matter is, we look at the sexiness of contrast, and stamina. Yes, there are some nice, good looking white men out there, but they don't treat us wives / girlfriends the way some of us want to be treated. I'd say, about 70 per cent of the white women between the age of 18 and 45 like a bit of rough in their sex lives. I know that I did back then, whereas, a lot of the white men prefer to treat their partners with too much love and affection. That's all good and well for starting a relationship, but then women need their lovelife to be spiced up as time goes by before she has children to bring up, and less time for sex. That is one reason I tried black, and yes, it was my best sex ever. Did I go back, yes, and still do occasionally. Does my husband know, yes. I am very highly sexed compared to my husband, who sometimes can't get it up due to his age, well thats what he puts it down to
I wish I had a wife like you.
My wife is from Mississippi and her family moved to Texas when she was 15. The whole time she was in Mississippi all she heard from her mom and Aunts was that all black men were sex fiends.That by itself made her curios. when I brought up interracial sex after we were married she said she wasn’t interested. Turned out after I set her up without her knowing on a date for her 50th birthday with a well hung black guy, she had been interested all along.
