Why, because i don't judge every member of any race, religion , nationality buy the words or actions of a single person. When you say all of any group are the same you are in my mind a bit of a fool. In this case i think of the many very satisfying times i would have missed if i had taken the position black guy, not hung, didn't fuck for *******. Don't ever want to meet with a black again. Why would i do that I'd had more than one white lover previously some were great, some were like that first black guy. Not the ideal choice for a second date. I never limited either my friends or lovers to any one race. Why would i do that, blacks make up less than 30% of our population and over half of them are women and children. The chance of making a great connection would be very limited . Some might say well 15% is a lot of men, true but it's a big country and they are not all living in my town. I read others declaring blacks only. My first thought are they for real. I'm sure some are but I'm just as sure others are not.
I met a woman at a conference about fifteen years ago. We were drinking and she ask me about black guys. Stated her preference was black guys.
I was polite and admitted i had also been with black men.
Later on after reflection i grinned and felt sad for her. She lived in a small town in Nebraska, she had reveled that there were no black men in her town, and as far as she knew not even any in the county . She had to drive over a hundred miles one way to meet a previous lover or attempt to
meet a new one. Frustrated pops right into my head over that situation. But it was her choice and i respect it, just not for me.