Can I train him to cum quicker?

Hotwife4life

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My hubby has always came sooner than I would like. However, since I started seeing other men his performance isn't as important. I want to try to train him to cum as quickly as possible. We both love the humiliation aspect. Does anyone have any ideas on how to train him? Or maybe there's already a thread I can be directed to? Thanks in advance!
 
I am a fast cummer and always wanted to delay my orgasms but nothing worked.
Not sure what triggers the orgasm but I am very sensitive to touch and visual aspects of sex.
I once had a girlfriend that played with my ass while stroking with my dick and that simple light touch would send me into orgasm, so maybe try that?
 
After years using chastity on and off my husband comes very fast now because he never know if I’m going to allow it . Basically when I unlock him I just say you have a some set time to come , use to be minutes now it’s usually one minute, might cut it to 30 seconds . If he doesn’t cum he doesn’t know when he’ll have another chance and sometimes I put him right back into chastity. He’s had to orgasms this year one for New Years and one for Vday , the New Years one was a hand job , ruined . The Vday I sucked him a little and then ruined it too !
 
Hotwife4life said:
My hubby has always came sooner than I would like. However, since I started seeing other men his performance isn't as important. I want to try to train him to cum as quickly as possible. We both love the humiliation aspect. Does anyone have any ideas on how to train him? Or maybe there's already a thread I can be directed to? Thanks in advance!
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Now that your needs are being taken care of by other men your husband should no longer feel the need to prolong his erection nor feel guilty for not lasting. You should tell him that—just as my wife told me.

Him knowing this should quicken his cumming for you as he provides you little pleasure.

The last time I was in my wife it was two or three thrusts almost 11 months ago. She told me, as well as her friends, that she doesn’t even count me as a fuck as I am quick and provide her no pleasure.

Telling your husband this while he is either inside you or in your hand should accomplish what you want.
 
Chrissy&Kitty said:
After years using chastity on and off my husband comes very fast now because he never know if I’m going to allow it . Basically when I unlock him I just say you have a some set time to come , use to be minutes now it’s usually one minute, might cut it to 30 seconds . If he doesn’t cum he doesn’t know when he’ll have another chance and sometimes I put him right back into chastity. He’s had to orgasms this year one for New Years and one for Vday , the New Years one was a hand job , ruined . The Vday I sucked him a little and then ruined it too !
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deep respect for treating your husband like this
 
@Hotwife4life: You start discussion threads but hardly respond to them. Do you even read what people are saying? 🤔
If you're still interested, i could add a few ideas that will most probably work.
 
Hotwife4life said:
My hubby has always came sooner than I would like. However, since I started seeing other men his performance isn't as important. I want to try to train him to cum as quickly as possible. We both love the humiliation aspect. Does anyone have any ideas on how to train him? Or maybe there's already a thread I can be directed to? Thanks in advance!
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Hi if you both like the humiliation aspect and it gets him off and will help get him off quicker I'd suggest 2 things, understand his fantasies and play them back to him in bed when he's fucking you, but make them slightly more extreme. For eaxmple if he gets off on the thought of someone fucking you, extend that to someone you both know and talk to him about them fucking you. I also agree with one of the other posters, give him a time limit, which could be 5 mins to start with, then take 30 seconds off each time you fuck him until have him down to 30 seconds and if he doesn't come in time ******* him off you.

You could work on the humilation and have a series of humilaiting forfeits if he doesn't come in the time limit you set him: e.g get a vasectomy, get cuckold tattoo from a female tattoo artist, get him to poposition someone in a bar for you, make him wear a cuckold t-shirt in public etc.

I think he'll learn to cum quickly
 
Mslubrandy said:
Hi if you both like the humiliation aspect and it gets him off and will help get him off quicker I'd suggest 2 things, understand his fantasies and play them back to him in bed when he's fucking you, but make them slightly more extreme. For eaxmple if he gets off on the thought of someone fucking you, extend that to someone you both know and talk to him about them fucking you. I also agree with one of the other posters, give him a time limit, which could be 5 mins to start with, then take 30 seconds off each time you fuck him until have him down to 30 seconds and if he doesn't come in time ******* him off you.

You could work on the humilation and have a series of humilaiting forfeits if he doesn't come in the time limit you set him: e.g get a vasectomy, get cuckold tattoo from a female tattoo artist, get him to poposition someone in a bar for you, make him wear a cuckold t-shirt in public etc.

I think he'll learn to cum quickly
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I love the forfeits idea as well as the time limit idea! Should be lots of fun!
 
My ex wife always complained it took too long time to come. She said it was boring to fuck with me so I went totally pussy free after a while and only used my hand to give her orgasms. Never managed with my dick. With regard to the question in this post I guess some foreplay is the solution using your hand or whatever to tease first.
 
One of the most heard advice for extending sexual play and male orgasm is to put a lot into foreplay. It ultimately leads to the reverse conclusion that if you limit foreplay, he will cum quicker. But ImO there's more to it. Limiting foreplay may help but on the other hand he needs to be at a high level of arousal at the same time. So how do you provide that? In order to do so, we need to differentiate between mental arousal and physical pleasure. Further more we should also differenciate erogenous stimuli and downright sexual stimuli.

If you want him to cum quick, there needs to be foreplay but a different type of than often portrayed in porn movies which are foremost centered on sexual stimuli and depiction of those. i think you should focus more on the mental aspect of getting him aroused and lusting for you, and the physical aspect of getting him hot without also getting him used to sexual stimuli and pleasure. The key idea is that at the time when penetrative sex starts, he will already be close to the edge. Also, when you want him to cum make use of additional "triggers" and use a combination of those for best results. ;) Good luck.
 
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